What Really Women Want In A Man, Five Deal-Breakers for Women

What is that women really want, this is such a fascinating topic to me. Because I spent so much of my own time figuring this out, I came from such a dysfunctional place with lack of relationships and not understanding the opposite sex, not understanding the dynamics of psychology involved. I worked really hard to dig my way out of that hole. During that time I learned a lot of stuff, studied a lot of material, then actually went out and practiced it.

The first point is never listen to a woman about what she wants in a man. It might sound like well the proper person to ask the woman. Because a woman’s way of understanding what she wants and a woman’s way of understanding her own psychology is not the same understanding that a guy needs to have of her psychology. A woman is not there cycle analyzing herself to the same kind of degree that a guy psycho analyzes a woman. A woman is more in the moment, she doesn’t care to really analyze exactly what’s going on that ruins the moment for her. Some women are in analyzing themselves but most women are not really interested in analyzing what it takes to fall in love.

What does a guy want in a girl, he wants everything, what does a woman want in a man, she wants everything. The question is what can she get? You are trying to maximize your reproductive value to do this you are trying to find the best possible mate. She wants good looks, security, social status, loyalty from the guy, guy who is confident, humor, guy who is detached and not needy with her, guy who is edgy and adventurous, a guy who she could have a deep intimate dirty sex with. These are the core elements of what a woman wants, if you can give her all of these things, then you are going to be her ideal match.

You don’t need to worry about to give her everything. In a real world she will not want everything because she can’t get everything, she is going to settle for something. Some of the things that woman wants is not as important as they are made out to be in popular culture in the media. There are absolute deal-breakers for a woman .

Good looks, security, social status, loyalty these are all things that you would think a woman would really really want in a man. So those four points though as important as they might seem they are, they are actually not deal-breakers. The deal-breakers are:

CONFIDENCE

As a man if you don’t have a confidence you are pretty much worthless to a woman. Basically a woman will not date a man who is lower in confidence than her. So you need to have more confidence than your woman, you need to be a strong, you need to be masculine.

HUMOR

Women love humor notoriously as they will tell you this and on this point they are actually right. The reason they want humor is because women are emotional creatures. They want emotional stimulation and emotional stimulation can be both positive and negative. They’d like to have a range of emotions, they are not like guys who are just like a flatline emotionally. A woman has broader and subtler range of emotions that she likes to go through and humor and laughing and smiling is so important.

DETACHMENT

A man needs to be detached from his woman. Detachment simply means that you are a man who has a purpose in your life and that the woman is not primary to your life. A Woman wants her man to be completely grounded, confident, masculine, out there achieving in the world . You have to be grounded in something outside of your woman. Women will leave needy guys in a second

EDGY

Guys who are edgy are not the straight-laced kind of a JP Morgan stockbroker types guys. Guys who are edgy are more like the adventurous kind of people. They are like the poet, the musician, the artist, the quirky hippie . She wants a sense of like newness. The guy is there to infuse her with emotions. The idea is you want to be interesting and you want to be a little bit dangerous. Women like men who challenge them, she wants something exciting.

INTIMATE DIRTY SEX

Women love this, they probably will never admit it to you, because it’s just socially unacceptable for them. If you can give your woman deep, intimate and dirty sex that alone right there can be enough to get her addicted to you like crack and basically all the other points you can drop. If you can please her in the bedroom in the right way then you have huge advantage over so many other guys.