Man and Women (As a partner/Couple)

in #writing5 years ago

People have different opinions and thought relating to their life partner. Men are so much inspired by the outer beauty of women and their vocal. But women are much clever than men. She has a number of things which she wants to see in her better half. Like, money and wealth are the first priorities of them. Rather than rely on beauty and age she always admires the way of living.

Let's make a list of qualities which every woman wants to see in their partners.

  1. He should always agree with her decision or even with opinions.
  2. He should remember all the events and days related to her, either it is first meeting, first gift, engagement day, birthday, anniversary etc.
  3. She is always waiting for surprises which men never ever thought in their dreams.
  4. She wants the man to take care of their child when they are busy.
  5. She wants a very happy and rich lifestyle and when the man works hard for it she claims that he is always busy in his work and not paying attention at her.
  6. She never wants her man to gossip about her.

There are number of things which women wants in their life partner but what man need in their life partner?


Men want their life partner be like:

  1. Man always want their life partner to be beautiful and elegant.
  2. In early times working of women was not the first priority of man but by the passage of time most of men want a working lady with beauty as it is helpful and contribute in living costs.
  3. He wants that she works like a house wife at home. Many people disagree with this point but it's a fact that working women somehow are less successful in house work due to diversion of attention in two places, so women need to share the house work with her as well which men don’t want in their life.

What are your thoughts about your partner? You can share your point of view in comment box.

Now, I am sharing some my points which is simple but deep as well.

In my life I saw many couples what I learnt from them I am going to share it with you.

  1. I think husband and wife need to be a good friends as you can share all your work, day, problems, secrets, memories, fun with him or her. So they both can better understand each other.
  2. The other lesson which I learnt so far is that don't try to be so conservative related to your partners. Mostly women always want to keep an eye on men. Doubt creates a very huge void in relation so let them be free but not too much.
  3. Marriages are mostly successful when both partners have independent thoughts for each other. In this case man are mostly not. It is possible only if you trust on your partner.
  4. Support each other it is again only possible when you trust each other.
  5. Appreciation is very important in the relationship. I saw many couples who have lack of appreciation in their relation which makes it weak.
  6. Stop buttering each other and say true words. Like a good man butter their own bread. Too much buttering makes the relationship fake.
  7. I think little things matter a lot in the married life. Mostly women know a lot about their husband's or partners like, dislike, needs, starting from the towel, food, colour to the socks but mostly men don’t notice these things and usually unaware of her woman’s habits even he doesn’t know about the most common things about women
    like her favourite food, colour even her desires. This extra selfish nature makes the relationship unpleasant.
  8. Good partners read the heart through the expression like behaviour and body language of a person tells a lot about it but only a sincere one and true lover can understand this.
    In short both have same expectations and desires. Only woman can understand and it’s not only her duty to get know about their partner but the same should be expected from man as both are equal.

I hope you like my post. So, please share your views and thoughts through comments. Have a good day..

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Speaking of partners, of course, everyone has a different perception. As a woman I also expect something perfect from my partner, but all of course is not what we expect, sometimes selfishness is always the enemy that continues to envelop every couple.

What I expect from my partner is certainly not always perfect, when this happens it's a little difficult to understand each other, but learning to complement one another is one of the things that needs to be done. What I want, at least he tries to make it happen. So vice versa I also have to try to meet their needs, although it is difficult to complement each other, but that is the only choice so that your relationship with your partner remains together even though sometimes different in your desires and perceptions.

Good points but each person is different. You can't lump them together. My female partner has many of the opposite characteristics you list. cheers

Yeah. every person is different and having many positive points.

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