SEC17 WK:#5: caring for aged and dependent relatives in the family

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This Contest is organised by @steemkidss. In this contest, we need to write about caring for aged and dependent relatives in the family.

Contest is really amazing and I am excited to share my opinion and experience on this topic and before going further, I would like to invite my few friends for this contest : @jyoti-thelight, @deepak94, @pea07

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Since my childhood, I always give my values to my family and those relatives who are always stood with me in my worst time. I am family oriented person and I truly believe in karma returns.

There are few people who are in my family and and in my relations, who always seek my support and you may think that they are on direct or indirect dependent. So I always try to give my support to them.

In my family, There is my elder brother and his whole family dependent on me. I and my brother work in same home business but his contribution is zero. He does not want to sit at shop for work. He wanders here and there in market and meet with other people for without purpose, he spends a lots of shop's income on his luxurious lifestyle like restaurant foods, alcohol etc but not contribute to shop's work but he is elder so he occupies everything and I have to work according to him.

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But he is full depend on me because If I don't go shop, so he is not able to open shop, his family is dependent on my because his family runs their house expenses because I work at shop and I generate income which he keeps for himself and shared a small amount with me for my expenses.

But still I am doing, Because just because of him, I can not let his family survive. He is not able to feed his family on his hard work. So I have to care them and have to serve my responsibility.

Yes, I am doing this out of forced. Because he married and he gave birth two children so this is his responsibilities to take care of them and this is his duty to work hard to earn money and runs all expenses and also give good present and good future to his family.

But unfortunately he does not work, He only knows how to spend money on alcohol and restaurant foods and because of his unstable expenses, his whole family is facing serious financial issues and even I am affected also because I work in same shop with him. But he declared himself owner of shop and he treats me as servant but still I am doing just because of I think, if I will not work extra so how his family will survive so, I work hard not for me but for them so they can atleast survive. But seriously it is out of forced only.

Except my brother and his family, there is my real uncle and his wife are my relatives. My uncle has 3 daughters and out of 3, one daughter had been expired, rest 2 daughters got married and went to husband's house. So now my uncle and his wife lives in their own house alone.

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They are aged people and I love them because when my father had been passed away after that my uncle always stood with me in my worst situation. He always did good for me so now he is aged and alone so this is my duty to care them.

I do this with joy, They are dependent indirect because they have their own income resource but they are alone so sometimes they need me to get them for routine check up, or for any house hold work, So I do my duty and as much as I can care , I do for them.

If you have any family members who are aged and seeking your support, Please 🙏 support them and care for them. It is not important that always you need to spend money for caring them. You can spend your time with them, ask them about their health, bring some fruits or essential stuff or whatever they need.

This small investment and this small care are enough for them and in return, they will bless you and God always listen aged people's blessings.