Will you attend your ex’s wedding?
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This is a very tactful and difficult question to answer and also, it's depend on the situation of the relationship between the 2 parties. I found this post on social which give the exciting about how people manage to respect their ex even after breakup.
But at the same time, I also find another post from another set of people who believe that their ex should never have peace even on their wedding day. Imagine what this person will do that day.
Another set of people are what we called ”pepper them". This ones will make sure they do whatever they can to make their ex jealous in one way or the other.
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No one want to be an ex but when there's a situation or circumstances whereby it's need to be separated, then breakup need to be done. Remember our ex are that soul we once spend our life with, the person I dated, the person i called my heart desire, the person i called all the romantic name in the world, but now, we're no longer together, and the person is planning a wedding and she invited me, will I : the weeding?
This event can be a chance to maintain a friendship or painful regret depending
on how and why we broke up . I will consider attend the wedding if we ended it amicably to show support and celebrate a significant life event for her because she was once an important person in my life.
I might also turned down the invitation if we ended in emotional and messy circumstances because I will find it difficult to move seeing her with other person. There's some relationship that is build on Trust and respect even after breakup, so if I find myself in such a friendship build on trust, I might considered attending the wedding with no hidden feelings attached.
Some people after breakup will try as much as they can to make their ex jealous either by dating a rich person or showing off on social Media. The kind of person I dated will determine whether I will attend the wedding or not.
I will like to invite @kidi40, @saintkelvin17, @woka-happiness, @ogechukwu-martha and @bossj23 to participate.
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Life is full of jealousy that is why is good before you jump in to another relationship is good to make peace first to be sure that your ex is not playing some thing bad against you.
Because that is one of the common mistakes some people does that always bring jealousy between the ex.
Thanks for the invitation.
You said something very important. A relationship should be build on trust. Once ex in most cases the trust is gone if it ever been there.
Indeed no one likes to be the ex but once adult we are exes in many ways and the word 'ex' part of 'exit' says enough. It is the end.
I wonder how it is for the new partner to be confronted with the ex. Even if the relationship is good a wedding should be about the new couple not exes sharing good memories, a past the new partner most likely was no part of.