The Role of Libido Discussions in Preparing for Marriage.

in Freewriters17 days ago

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There's something I'd really love to talk about here. I've never said this on any of my posts before but I think it's important we hear it. What's that? LIBIDO! It's the electrifying spark that ignites between two souls, and the magnetic pull drawing them closer with each heartbeat

Before you say Jack Robinson, would you allow me to finish up? Good. Gracias.

Listen up! Discussing sexual excitement (libido) before marriage is indispensable for several reasons. So, buckle up and get ready for a journey into the depths of passion and intimacy before the vows are exchanged. Trust me, it's a discussion you won't want to miss, especially if you're in a relationship with your beloved partner walking towards marriage. Pay scrupulous attention. Now, let's get started!

  1. Alignment of Expectations: Just like people have different tastes in food or hobbies, they also have different levels of interest in sex. Talking openly about how much or how little you're interested in sex helps both partners understand what to expect. This prevents surprises or disagreements later on.

  2. Intimacy Building: Imagine a secret room in your house where you can talk about anything without worrying. That's what open communication about sex does for a relationship. It builds a strong bond because you trust each other with your feelings and desires. This trust makes your relationship happier and healthier.

  3. Identifying Potential Issues: Talking about libido before getting married helps couples spot any problems that might cause trouble later on. It's like checking a car before a long trip to make sure everything works smoothly. If there are any concerns, they can be addressed early on, like fixing a small problem before it becomes a big one.

  4. Exploration and Growth: Imagine a garden where you can try new plants and see what grows best. Similarly, when couples talk openly about sex, they can explore what they like and what makes them feel good. It's like discovering new paths in a forest. This openness leads to a stronger and more enjoyable relationship because both partners understand each other better and can grow together.

With these few points, I believe you've now understood the importance of openly discussing your sexual excitement with each other to avoid stories that touch the heart tomorrow.

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I agree with you but not only discussing will do. Now we open up and discuss: bodylanguage, body odour, the way one kisses, how a hand feels (not to mention the rest) are all parts that cannot be ignored.
Besides of likes, what we like to do with A might feel disgusting with B.

Just talking is not enough. Like we say here you don't buy a bike before you tried it out, same for a car. If food stinks you skip the next meal.
Besides of this sex is rarely what we had in mind no matter how attractive the other seemed and oh boy how easily we lie it was ...

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Thanks for your response. I agree with your opinion.

Too many it will be difficult to discuss their likes. Likes one has to discover first. Still, it is a good thing to know what is expected before you start having sex.

Thank you for joining the freewriters. 👍

Thanks for your response.

Yes, I'm glad to join the community. 😊

Isn't it that talking too much about sex might actually deflate the libido?

It's a bit like discussing the menu too extensively, only to find that the food loses all its flavor once it's time to eat. Let's think about that.

After all, the most libidinous things often develop in the midst of sexual activity, when the desires of both partners intertwine in spontaneous and surprising ways.

Perhaps some things... are best discovered by doing them!

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My point here is not discussing too much about it. Of course, there are other more important things to talk about, nevertheless we can't neglect this out.

That's my point.

Thanks for your response

You are welcome.

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