SEC-S16/W2 - "Childhood trauma and incidents: how do they affect our children's life? "

in Hindwhale Community3 months ago

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Good morning steemians
Am @saintkelvin17, a very hardworking Nigerian steemian. I must confess that last week was very bad to me, I felt bullied last week and I have discovered all my mistakes. I hope to do better in steemit this week. Children are gifts given to couples from God and am happy we are here again this week to talk about children, am just excited about this topic.

What are the problems faced by children, & which are all childhood traumas?

Children face alot of negative things in their life which is very bad at this early stage of their life, sometimes they begin to wonder how life will be like in the future when they are adult. Problems children face are stress, bully, financial pressure, academical weakness, peer pressure and others. Children really need to be equipped and guided by their parents or guidance. I feel pity for the orphans in the street the most because they have nobody to guide them.

Childhood traumas are very bad because it affects children who doesn't have parents or guidance the most. Even the children who have parents always hide something from them just the way I did when I was 15. I had childhood trauma and I was very depressed to the extent suicide was just all over my head, I had no money and my parents weren't that financial stable then. All I was doing was just to write storybooks, I was too young to get a job and I was still I high school.

How to protect children from social bullying?

There are so many easy to protect children from social bullying which most parents doesn't know and am happy I have these knowledge before I get married in the future 😁. Children really need to be careful with who they associate themselves with in the internet, most timed you see young girls nude videos being leaked in the internet and I feel pity for them all.

Parents now need to give their children limits on the way they use their phones. Three days young children have phone and they are all over the internet causing traffic. Parents need to monitor their children accurately and discipline and advice them each time they see them making mistakes online. Parents also need to follow their children's social media accounts so that they can keep track of what their children always post.

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How to educate our children about good touch and bad touch?

Children are ignorant of alot of things and if they don't receive orientation from their parents on time it will make them to make a big mistake. Parents need to always guide their children, I know most parents work till night but at least they should make out time for their children's growth, if they have chance in the weekends, they should ask their children necessary questions that will help to relieve their children.

Currently am facing financial pressure as a young adult as I have to work hard in steemit everyday to ensure I contribute to the food that will be kept on the table, am the 3rd breadwinner of my family and I give my parents money, they don't give me money, I don't ask them for anything concerning, I will soon be a student once again and I will leave home and go to school. Parents and teachers are the important people in children's life.

What do we have to sacrifice to raise a good child?

To sacrifice and raise a good child, it takes alot of discipline and courage from the parents. Parents need to sacrifice their time in other to raise a good child, because once they have enough time for their children, they will do very well. Am so delighted that my parents had enough time for my siblings and I and I my say that am the one who took that opportunity to live a good life and I believe am the apple of my parents eye.

Parents really need to sacrifice the act of procrastination and discipline their children with all their strength, am a living testimony of that because my father started flogging me with cane when I was just 2 years old and that early discipline has made me the responsible young African man I am today. I will also do that to my children. Parents just need to avoid procrastination at all cost.

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That's great that you have shared your real life story about you that when you were child then you were also very depressed because you can easily see that your parents are financially unstable and you was too much little to get any job and I also agree with you that many times children hide many things from their parents because they have fear in their mind that what their parents would do after hearing then and this is all about lack of communication between parents and their children and we can also say that it is a communication gap that should be filled by parents because children are too much little and they cannot understand such deep things.

I wish you good luck in this engagement challenge

Hello bro, is good to see your wonderful comment on my post today, yes children always hide things from their parents and this is very bad, I was once like that when I was younger, I will break my arm and I won't tell my parents, I will be sick and I won't tell my parents sometimes.

I wish you good luck in this engagement challenge as well.

Not every time children the hide everything from their parents because if there is no close bond of parents with children then these things happen otherwise not so there is a need to parents to focus on this matter and to give their children a very loving gesture so that they may feel very free and they may not feel hesitated to share anything to their parents.

Good luck to you too ☺️

Youbate absolutely right and i eas about to say that as well, a hide don't hide things from his/her parents if their parents is really close to them añd also friendly with them. I wish you good luck once again.

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 3 months ago 

I enjoyed reading your entry especially with the details provided. You've done more than enough justice to this post. I wish your financial pressure would be over this year. The traumas you mentioned are very much obvious especially in today's world. Wishing you best of luck in this contest.

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Yeah I tried my best to make sure the post is very excellent and well-detailed bro. Is good to post things like this in steemit every morning when our brain is fresh.

Yes I also hope my financial pressure end this year so that I can focus on my studies by God's grace next year.

Yes, children really need to get much attention from their parents so that they don't go astray. I wish you good luck in this engagement challenge.

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Muy cierto @saintkelvin17, los niños sin padres sufren más traumas porque no tienen quien los oriente en algunas cosas de la vida, por otra parte usted tiene mucha razón hay que controlar el horario de los niños en Internet, porque así como se consigue buena información también hay personas mal intencionadas que engañan y manipulan a los niños poniéndolos en muchos casos en contra de sus padres.

Saludos y éxito en el concurso.

Es preocupante como los niños sufren por fusversas situaciones que ocurren en su entorno por ejemplo la burla, los gritos en el hogar, es desesperante tal situación,

You have nicely explained about Childhood trauma and incidents. I really agree with the last point that to raise a good child, there should be a good discipline for their parents also.

 2 months ago 

Hello dear, I wish to you to be in peace and living their best moments of life.
This is kind of a subject is this which forces everyone to think. In childhood, every child gets bullied by the class kids. Almost most of the children have to become victims of bullying, hence proper guidance from the parents is very important.
I enjoyed reading your post. Wish you good may you always achieve whatever you aim for yourself in life and make the best journey .Greetings from me Have a beautiful.

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