SEC17 WK:#6: My Family, My Pride!
INTRODUCTION |
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Family is the root of a tree that keeps hold of every leaf , flower and fruit in any thunder . It provides sufficient nutrients to the other parts by working hard underground, sometimes the roots doesn't feel enough to provide all the minerals but still it takes help of other and by anybow through mutual relationships or mycorrhiza .. it manages to fulfill every need .
This root is family and we are its leafs and flowers . Every family is special in its own . I won't do a mistake by saying every family is loving but yes , majority family do love and care for each other .
Luckily, I have a family that really really cares for me . My family consists of five people -
My mother
My father
My brother (Abhishek)
My sister (Radha)
Me (Shruti)
I thank God every single day for providing me so much love and care in my life . There are many people who don't receive it and I feel bad for them a lot . My family is unique in its own because we have different type of bonding.
UNIQUENESS |
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All of three siblings are more bended towards our mother , because have those typical Asian fathers . No matter how much personal or social problem we have , how much happy or sad we are .. we go to our mother. Sometimes she gets fed up of listening us and shuts us away but even that shut down makes us feel a bit better , no matter what ... we know that she is our epitome of everything, she adds meaning to our existence.
We aren't close to her just like that , it's all her efforts... all hers . My mother is that fact that makes our family a unique one, its her.
Since childhood when we were very small , she loved us ... not by all her heart but by all her soul . She sacrificed so much , so much that even today when we face any argument and her judgment feels wrong .. we still shut our mouth because we can't hurt her . Sometimes we accept her ideology , sometimes try to make her understand and sometimes rebel guys ! .
My family is unique because of her , because she don't behave like a strict mother with us . Since we were little she always was like a funny bunny 🐰 with us , like a friend. Due to some reasons we weren't much socialized and I and my sister used to be those lonely quiet kids . She knew somewhere that she needs to be our friend, that her daughters don't get the chance to laugh that often .
It was her humanity , love and motherhood that she sacrificed all her attitudes , ego , a position of being higher - THE MOTHER ... and chose to be friends with us 3 year olds . It is uptill today that she behaves childish with us but the difference is we equally participate in all kinds of madness . My mother is very mature and strong woman . I sometimes in argument say that you are very weak woman , but deep down I know that she is stronger than mountains.
She is so innocent and has always been so . She immediately panics and cries and so I also became a panic machine(successfully inherited from my darling). She has always been a cool and chill mother .... whenever we say hey listen , the next one always answers yes my darling what can I do for you ... and this is the habit of all of us . Even my friends envy for how great she is and calls me a trash(positively) but anyways let's ignore those rabbits.
She has suffered so much since childhood that my heart aches for her and so being a woman myself, I and my sister are very close to her . We can't see her crying or hurt at all , we'd rather rip the skin off of the other person for making her hurt .
Her innocence, jolly nature and kiddish behavior makes our family - a unique one .
NEGATIVE ASPECTS OF MY MOTHER |
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Please don't think she has no negative aspects . She rips our skin off when in anger , I used fear in my little days that she would cut my foot and then I will walk doing "tak-tak" by my hanging bones ... because she used to have knife most of the times in her hand while cutting vegetables. So I used to walk away from the area where she used to cut veggies.
My little brother has got beaten up a lot but the award of most beaten child goes to SHRUTI GOYAL.
We do have a generation gap and we do face arguments. Many times she don't understand us and we feel lonely and disturbing.
But I think we have to learn our life lessons . No one can be with us forever not even parents.
She looks like our fierce goddess kaali when in anger and yes dear steemians, she has anger issues.
HABIT |
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My family is the reason why I keep coming to them . The comfort I feel with them is nowhere, the care , the love , the selflessness and that dialog of ours when we don't want to do the work .
When the one ask for any help and the other is not in the mood then we simply say - "Self service dude 👍✌" .
I have one family and so I keep striving for that love and uniqueness. And my thirst for that environment and love won't ever be finished. I will keep coming back , again and again... always.
PROUD |
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I am proud of my family for who they are . I am proud for everyone values each other , for everyone has sacrificed and suffered a lot . Sometimes when we talk we cry for the sufferings of one and then realize that the others also suffered a lot . We keep feeling sorry for each other by putting them on the pedestal and in this way we all care for each other and not ourselves much . Someone we do get the lesson of making ourselves priority but still we get blinded by our love and again dedicate ourselves in serving for each other .
We are proud for even the littlest member , my brother because he is so mature and innocent in this young age . We are proud for who he is .
PRESENT |
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The day I will have enough money for fulfilling every silliest desire of my loved ones , will be the day they won't ever need a gift . I don't know what I will gift because I will give them my all ..... all of me and my resources.
My sister and our bonding
My sister and I didn't had great bonding while growing up , she used to bully(positively) a lot but now we both moved on . I love her , I never confess to her but I really do and notice every single thing that she don't even remember herself . I wish to give her the world because she deserves it , to keep her happy always and never be sad .
Offcourse, in return she will have to give me a glass of water everyday without tantrums.
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Still if I had to say , I want to gift my mother a home by my own earnings and my sister a beautiful diamond necklace because she is fond of diamonds .
My brother a coaching institution admission receipt... because he is not at all fond of studying....just kidding.... No I Am Not .
Well I will provide him a tutoring for cricket because he is really interested into it .
I would gift nothing to my father because he has no interest in any material things anymore , he already have achieved everything he desires of . I will gift him 100 times more devotion and respect that I have for him now .
Cc - @steemkidss
I like the way you compare your family as the root of a tree that provide love and support because there's a unique bond and love within your family, particularly towards your mother.
Am happy to know that your mother is the reason our family is unique, as she has always been a friend rather than a strict mother to everyone since you were young. Despite not being very social, she knew you needed laughter and friendship. She sacrificed her ego and position as a mother to be a friend to everyone in the family Even in arguments, you respect her because of her love and strength. This kind of mother need to be celebrated. good luck @shruti16
Thanks a lot for stopping by and sharing your opinion on my post. Thanks a lot of appreciation and love towards my mother . Yes she is someone who deserves to be celebrated.
Thanks for your appreciation
OMG! I could feel the heat of love from your content. It's all over the place. Wow, your mom has done great things, the out pouring of love to her melted my heart, I felt the joy of motherhood. I wish she could read this herself, it would be the day she cried but deep down her heart is the sweetness of it all. What a lovely mother you have. A mom who is strong even at her old age, a mom who fought for you, cared for you until now, always looking out for the best of her family. I love your sweet and natural description of a family, just like a root of a tree, a family has the branches which beautifies it and makes it stand out unique. I think this is the beat gift ever to your family, you don't need more gifts for them. All the best to you on this challenge!
Thankyou so much for soooo deeply reading my post and showering your love. Thanks a lot for every word of yours .
Don't worry I showed her your comment and she said - एक अच्छा मातृत्व भरा दिल ही दूसरी मां को समझ सकता है। मुझे समझने के लिए आपका बहुत धन्यवाद! ❤ एक समर्पित और प्यारी मां ही दूसरी मां के ममता को समझ सकती है।
Thanks a lot mam 🙏 ❤
Its nice to read your publication dear friend as you have nicely presented the whole topic and also shared some interesting facts about your family. Your mother is such a gem lady as she has done a lot of things for you and your, your siblings and your other family as well. I really enjoyed reading your article and thanks a lot for sharing with us. Good luck 🤞🍀
Thanks a lot for reading and being appreciative. You are welcome my friend for everything 🙏.
Yes truly she is and did a lot . Thanks ..
Thanks dear for this great information about your family. We can't compare anything with the mother love's because she love a lot after our God. She teach us every things bad or good in our life. Being a family we Lough together play eat and enjoy together. When we face any kind of troubles then we join the same team and take the solution. So keep it up my best wishes are always with you.