Totally Outplayed V, Contributed By @olawalium.
…continued… from part 1 and part 2, and part 3, and part 4.
Like I was saying before now, a woman sees sex as an asset and not just an activity to fuel any ego, as a man would. Her virginity or even her intimate part for that matter is a major example of an asset to her. They like to give it to someone they feel is most deserving, which is why they feel “robbed” and always scream the guy took “something” from them when you sleep with them and end up leaving them. More like an investment lost and who would take kindly to that?
With the two people in question here, they both have different view of sex obviously. The guy has a liberal view while the lady is more conservative and when you have a clash in this kind of situation, you will always find yourself in situations like this; where the lady would never want you to go without a fight, trick you into getting you hooked and feel aggrieved that you have used her. This lady in question has resorted into protecting her “investment” over the years through pregnancy. Well played young lady, well played.
I can understand the things going on in this guy’s mind right now. He would wish he could go back to that moment to have it all in replay, so he can make better choice. He would wish the result turn out negative so he can breathe a sigh of relief while making a decision to keep off every lady (out of excitement, which he won’t keep to in the long run). Life sometimes has a way of messing up with us when we think we are smart. He got served and now he has his head full of what ifs.
If it turned out negative, I hope he learned his lesson; at least about women, relationship and also life (because like I always say, we grow as we go through life), and if it turns out positive, he should wrap his head around it and know that he needs to face this head on, but the truth still remains that, he shouldn’t marry her if he feels she is not who he wants. It’s sad to know that he might decide not to marry her, which brings the question; “If she was good enough to be slept with, what makes her not good enough to be married?” That is a question that remains constant but the answer is a variable.
THE END.
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Coming from experience, there is no doubt about this. We view sex differently. While to some of us men, it is a contest, a conquest or to shine our ego but to most ladies it means way much more.
I agree that intimate part of a lady is like an asset which she wants to give it to deserving man. And when they end up by leaving each other then the lady feels that she lost her asset, which cause her disappointed.
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Yes I like that statement! if she was good to have sex with, why not good to marry her?
Some counts sex as a game so they play as many as they want. If they are good to have sex with, why not good to marry them?
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