"I am interested in a beautiful girl. Can you tell me how I can get her?"

Hi Nomad,

I am here to say something to you - I recently made a friendship with a girl and I call her up often as to keep in touch. She is moreover very beautiful. She talks well as a friend without any bad thoughts. But the thing is, deep inside my heart I really like her and I want her to be my girlfriend but I also heard that she is not interested in the LOVE PERSPECTIVE. Please can you tell me how I can attract her and get her?

ROMEO

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Romeo,

If I told you how to get the girl, one thing would surely happen – you would not get her at all. Why? Because you can never inflict your wishes and desires on others, and the only way for you to change your reality and have a beautiful girlfriend is through changing yourself.

In realization the only thing that really matters is You. Once you master your life you allow your energies to serve you. For now, my words seems to you as a new-age cliche so I urge you to go out and experience that.

Everything stems from you. Everything begins and ends with you and the purpose is that you learn about yourself, about your inner balance, about your inner wisdom and strength and about your own magnificence as a divine human being.

The situation in which you find yourself right now has come into your life to teach you something about yourself, so you would be able to work and remove one more small obstacle that stands between you and your True-Love.

You say that you really like this girl; perhaps you are even in love with her. Did you have the courage to ask her directly what she feels for you? NO! You did not do that yet and you just counted on what you heard from others. Perhaps you are shy, perhaps you are afraid of being rejected, and perhaps you don't really believe that you can have her, that you deserve a beautiful girl to be your girlfriend.

This is a wonderful opportunity for YOU to work on those beliefs. To examine what you really think about yourself. For example, can you really feel that you are a handsome and gorgeous person and that you are dearly beloved? Put your ego aside, I am not recommending that you feed your ego. What I am advising is to feel how YOU love YOU! Pretend, if you need, that you are the loveliest person in the world, that you are a kind, caring, compassionate and understanding person. Feel that.

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Then, understand that it really does not matter if that girl accepts your love or rejects it. What will matter is the inner process that you will have made towards your divinity. What will matter is the courage that you will find inside enabling you to approach her and to confess your love. Share your feelings with her and do it without expectations for a certain outcome.

If she is interested in you then it will be wonderful; and if she is not, then it will be OK too because the self-love that you began to develop will surely attract another beautiful soul to be your partner. This is a certain thing. This is how reality works.

As a final tip – if you feel a bit nervous about asking her, or even talking with her about what you feel, do some breathing exercises. Consciously breathe in some fresh air and circulate it through your body. Then breathe out at a pace that suits you. Do it several times while you maintain mental focus on your breath; soon enough you will feel much more relaxed.

And then approach her with a smile on your face and a self-loving heart. The outcome will surely be very appropriate for you.

Good luck!