Seriously, whilst being abusive and not a very nice thing to say, its certainly not male on female sexual abuse. He used no gender specific language and you calling it out as sexual abuse and then promoting this post up to the hilt as an accusation to simply make someone youve fallen out with is a bit pathetic.
Worse still, it belittles the true sexual abuse and inequality that goes on in the world every day.
Using words such as

They are such dicks.

In one of your posts smacks of hypocrisy. This is gender specific language.

Everyone falls out and sometimes oversteps the mark, but trumping up the charge to sexual abuse is wrong.

The pair of you need to stop washing your dirty laundry in public and sort out your issues with civility.
We can't always agree, but we can always agree to disagree.