The pressures of a modern man

in #blog5 years ago

Modern men - what is it to gain and lose?

A good woman doesn't want a superman. She knows that superman does not exist.

All the qualities a modern man needs are fidelity, resilience and kindness.

So, if you have to go through the following unnecessary pressures, be brave to step through.

1 | Body-shaming is not just the pressure of women

Life is in a hurry, people lose patience to understand a person. Just beautiful, everything is after.

Social networks, media builds and mold the perfect "gods", "male gods" models and those outside that standard, "auto" are not worth bothering.

Appearance does not determine who we are.

But at least if there are looks, life is sometimes easier.
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2 | Men build houses - women build nests?

To be fair, that sentence is the pressure of both women and men.

Modern men - do not put the burden to strive, try outside society to make money, to have status so that a day of rest is not available.

Modern women - don't hang around the kitchen all the time, offering a husband and a son to do something that is called "building a nest".
3 | Men are indifferent!

The society says so. People say permanent men never understand women.

I apologize for men a bit.

First, men are still concerned, but sometimes they don't know how to express.

Secondly, women are hard to understand (you have to admit it).

Life will be simpler, when women will share and men will listen, right?

4 | Men must not be weak?

As a few years old boy, his parents taught: As a boy, do not cry.

As a guy on the journey to be an adult, society says: As a man, weakness is a coward.

As an adult man, he himself told his heart: Emotion is a dark thing, not revealed.

If your life is happening in accordance with that rule, change from today.

Things that are compressed inside cannot be shared - are scary things that can knock us out at any time.
5 | MAKING - MEN - HE is a journey

A perfect man has nothing to do with how he was born, but because of the way he grew up.

  • quote The Godfather

Cherish the mature journey of a modern man, do not click and say, "They are men!"
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6 | Men are often not treated well

People only say that they are kind to women, be polite to women.

But the truth is that everyone deserves equal respect.

If the next time is a man, please keep the door for them.

If you are a waitress at a coffee shop, just smile and thank you.

7 | Sometimes, the phrase "being a man" is a burden

As a man, must be like this ...

Sometimes, that phrase alone is enough of a burden.

But brother,

There is a saying like this: The shoulders of a man should not be overlapped because of social pressures.

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