Children's neatness

Accuracy is considered an exclusively positive feature. However, it can be a manifestation of the negative.

Someone can rightly say that a neat child is a modern myth and most likely you will be right, but only partially. Such children do exist. After all, there are neat adults, but they do not come from nowhere. If the child is neat, and even not risky, then you are dealing with a high-grade pedant.

We long for accuracy. But our motive is not to see the child neat and collected. We are most likely interested in him not giving us a lot of problems. After all, they are scattered with great enthusiasm, but not very much collected.

A neat child as well as others needs to be raised.

But accuracy is, in fact, not a quality in itself, but a manifestation of a deeper inner state. The fact is that this may be a manifestation of pedantry or composure, and possibly indecision. For example, I know a teenager who, when making a decision, begins to put everything in order. Thus, he achieves 2 goals: he pulls time and helps himself to calm down.

When your child is neat, you first need to figure out why? But we do not think about it. After all, toys are not scattered, things are always in their places, and there is no need to constantly remind. We get used to order, without thinking about its causes. We think only about the causes of the unrest.

If it seems to us that there is nothing to discipline a neat child for, then we do not educate him, but train. After all, education is, first of all, the formation of personality, i.e. creative, not just a corrective process.

It is worth looking at why he is doing this, and to make sure that this is not a manifestation of the negative side of life.

Are your children neat?