Why we compromise in life ?为什么我们在生活中妥协?

in #busy6 years ago
Many popular psychologists, such as Dr. Phil, preach that compromise is the key to resolving relationship conflict and essential to building sustainable relationships. They view compromise as a “win-win” solution where both people get some of what they want

Here many questions rise in our mind  such as 

  • Why we should compromise?
  • Why compromise is important?
  • What will happen if I will not compromise?
  • What are the consequences of compromises?
  • Why compromises are important in relationship?

Compromise 

We can say that compromise is a state or condition where two or more people come on agreement or settlement.

Sometimes in life to do compromise is very difficult and impossible for people having some kid of relationship.Here, in our society , A women must compromise in her life issues. To save relation , its very essential for both people. In my opinion, we should not always compromise in life because in life we have to stand for our rights and desires. Although compromise is a win-win game. 

I must want your opinions for this , have you even compromised in your lives?


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许多流行的心理学家,如菲尔博士,都认为妥协是解决关系冲突的关键,也是建立可持续关系的关键。他们认为妥协是一种“双赢”的解决方案,让两个人都能得到他们想要的东西

在这里,我们脑子里浮现出很多问题

我们为什么要妥协?

为什么妥协很重要?

如果我不妥协将会发生什么?

妥协的后果是什么?

为什么妥协在关系中很重要?

妥协

我们可以说妥协是两个或两个以上的人达成协议或解决的状态或条件。

有时在生活中做妥协对于有一些孩子关系的人来说是非常困难和不可能的。在我们的社会中,女性必须在生活问题上妥协。为了挽救关系,它对两个人都非常重要。在我看来,我们不应总是在生活中妥协,因为在生活中我们必须代表我们的权利和欲望。虽然妥协是一个双赢的游戏。

我一定想要你的意见,你甚至在生活中妥协了吗?

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我觉得自己是一个很容易妥协的人。

妥协的原因,不外乎是太在意对方,例如在父母关系中,我一般会是妥协的那一个,因为我不想看到他们伤心。当然前提是我明白妥协后的结果是我可以承受的。

至于念爱关系中的妥协,我好像未曾遇到。不过即使到了需要妥协的时候,我想那也应该是为了爱吧。

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Pressure ... good point included here by you. We also compromise in order to save a relationship or for our loved ones.

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