NO! : Power To Say It When It Matters Most

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Yes and No very simple words and major integral part of our daily deciding actions. Yes is simply agreeing or accepting or in favour of a particular action(s) while on the other hand No is simply not concurring or not accepting, not in agreement; I can basically say both words are inversely proportional.

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I observed irrespective of how these words play major role on how we take deciding actions, some folks are just Yes prompt, In their dictionary, the word NO is completely not existing. Somehow, I know you might be wondering where am I actually driving to with this. You see, In our contemporary life, YES and NO are words we can't do without. It's just like Positive and Negative terminals in electric Power:without either, there won't be power they are indispensable in power distribution

Few days back, I read through a post on Self Evaluation it was really a good write up. As a matter of fact, evaluating yourself is liken to taking stock or inventory of your business to know how far, how well it has gone
Within a stipulated business year as the case maybe. By doing this, business owner(s) will definitely know where they didn't get right and consequently make adjustment or amendment for the maximization of profit and minimization of loses:this is Evaluating and by doing this, values is being added to the business. The same principles basically applies to self Evaluation,Knowing when to stop, continue, do away with some actions, attitude and ideology. By doing this, you are adding values to yourself.

Back to the primary subject (YES OR NO), on the course of self evaluation which is directly adding value to your self, certain decision(s) /action(s) are imbibe while other are completely thrown away. Base on this development, the concerned person said No to some decisions and Yes to others. My focus is categorically on No

When should you say No
Why should you say No
How should you say No
Who should you say No to
Where should you say No

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These questions are directly left for the concerned person depending on the circumstances evolving per time.

Let's look at some practical instances,

Some ladies have fractured their life in sexual relationship because they couldn't just say NO to their partners. On a very serious note, very relationship must not involve sex. Ladies should know when their male friends are crossing the line and equally have the power to say **No! ** or Stop. There after, leave that environment it's not advisable to still be in such close spot because it might warrant sexual abuse.

Note
"Any male friend who can not respect you as a lady in the closet is not worth being your friend in the Open"

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It very important to say NO to a business partner you can't trust. Have the power to say No to the business partner because the business can suffer lost of investment

It is imperative to say No to a friendship where only the other partner is always on the receiving side(I.e always demanding
for his or her own benefits and cannot also give to you)friendship is supposed to be mutual.

It's imperative to say No to an organization where it demands a lot with its work load but can not reciprocate back in payment and proper welfare for its employees

There are so many practical examples around us on which we can say No to so that we can have a better life.
Life is so precious that we can't just live in inconvenience. Remember there is no two life to live so ensure you take the best decision to have a sweet fulfilled life that can impact this generation.

Say No when it's not proper
Say No when it's not convenient to you
Say No when it's life threatening
Say No When it's detrimental to you.

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Please don't say No to this post

Thanks for reading, Resteem, Comment

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