Why you must make difficult decisions to fulfill your dreams

Difficult decisions, as the title of this post says. Because it is precisely the difficult decisions that transform us the most, those that make us progress, grow, evolve, vibrate ... Those decisions that make you feel dizzy and feel an immense fear, when it seems that everything begins to crack, to break, when your The past looks threatening and the future seems uncertain and often unpromising.

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If during this 2018 you have a difficult decision to make, in the first place, my sincere congratulations! Second, quiet, quiet ... I know you're scared to death. It's the same for me. This year will put to the test too many things in my life , both personally and professionally. But at the same time to feel that fear, I feel an enormous emotion, I feel strength and I trust.

And finally, if this year you have to make a difficult decision, here is a wonderful post from Gabriela and Yeyo in which they give us the keys on how to deal with an uncomfortable and important situation at the same time in your life. I encourage you to read it very carefully because it can give you essential clues and you can learn from the experience of these two nonconformists.

Why you must make difficult decisions to fulfill your dreams
Are you afraid to make difficult decisions? Do you wait a long time and procrastinate for fear of making that decision that brings you closer to your mission of life?

Well that's just what happened to us.

Since we started our online business, we knew that sooner or later we would have to give up the security and stability that our jobs gave us , as well as the security of having a routine.

But when you want to do something with all your strength , as in our case, take a "sabbatical year", yes, sabbatical quotes because we will go to our first round the world, with our business in the backpack, dead of fear and without No certainty of what will happen, you have to make decisions.

If you are afraid to make difficult decisions or do not know how to do it in the most objective way, this article is for you.

We go for the beginning: What decisions do we make?
Every day you are full of decisions:

You make decisions
Your partner makes decisions
Your family makes decisions
At work your boss makes decisions
And even your cat makes decisions
Most of the decisions we make are routine, they are habits that you do not even question. That is, you are not even aware that you are making decisions.

For example:

When you get up in the morning
When you decide to have breakfast
When you decide to go to the bathroom
When you take an active pause
When you work with desire and when you do not

Since that makes you become the protagonist of your life or you are one more that walks like a zombie through life.

Why is it hard for us to make decisions?
Making decisions is uncomfortable. It makes us leave the comfort zone and deal with uncertainty.

We still remember when after Yeyo lost his job in November 2016 and our travel plan was suspended, to start together as a couple and create an online business around a dream cost us a lot.

Investing our savings in digital training scared us and also exposing our project to the world.

We were terrified to make the decision to start fighting for our dreams and for everyone to find out about them, that we did not want to continue doing what everyone does.

If you think about it carefully, what has more merit?

Take the reins of your life and fight for your dreams or stay with the rest of the flock, and let other people and adverse situations in life respond for you?

In our case, we were clear that there were 2 scenarios:

Be paralyzed without making any decision, obviate the fact of wanting to start as a couple and wait for things to come to us
Take the decision we considered appropriate, taking advantage of Yeyo's work stoppage even if we do not finally get good results.
We had it clear, we had to make a difficult decision and it was impossible to get our decision right , since many are taken in conditions of uncertainty where you do not know what will happen.

You do not even know if something is going to happen, or not. Despite all this , you should always keep in mind that people who have achieved great things in their lives have not left their decisions adrift , and that was exactly what we wanted to do.

Successful people have decided which way to go. Taking the initiative to start an online business together and that we were wrong could happen, but when you make decisions you should know that the error is key to learn and move forward in the real world. Try and failure. While, if you do not decide, others will do it for you.