It is also good to think of what is best for the pet. Are your kids big enough to be gentle with it? Is the pet going to tolerate children that are not gentle? (It always makes me sad when dogs lose their homes over disagreements with the human kids in the house.) Is someone home to be with the pet if it a large social animal like a dog? If not is a gerbil or hamster better? Do you have people to care for your pet in emergencies or while traveling?

Same with lifespan. A gerbil you might have for 2 years or so... a dog could be with you 18 if you are lucky. Kids grow up and your level of responsibility for them will change. A pet is always going to depend on you for everything.

It is super worth it. We have two dogs. But it is good to be hesitant, because pets will change your life. ☺️