PostPartum depression

The so-called society does not stop when it comes to being a mother. A woman who is 'passive, fragile and well behaved' before her birth is sacred after her birth. Heaven spreads under your foot. Let's see, there is no more incomprehensible rebellion! What is the benefit of turning your mother back on your panties? My answer is very clear; Every woman has a 'very much' benefit. These divine oppressions on the Annelies keep the mothers away from the people. His desires, his desires, his dreams, his anger, his principles, are crushed under his mother. Society is about to prepare for your mother's difficulties; chooses to fool women with their tails. Your mother's imaginary expectations are frustrating when you compare mothers to facts. The social pressure that blesses the anarchies prevents the mother from receiving social support.

These psychological pressures can disrupt the psychological well-being of women. According to the American Psychological Association (APA), one in every 7 females is suffering from postnatal depression. Postpartum depression is a type of depression starting in the postpartum period and lasting up to one year, affecting mother and baby in severe forms. The mother feels unworthy, lonely, pessimistic and unhappy. Sleep and loss of appetite disorders, loss of interest to everything, trying to stay away from people and accompany all these thoughts to harm yourself and baby. These symptoms make mothers feel insufficient and guilty. Besides, the responsibility of a baby who has just opened his eyes with his eyes is a mother. They begin to compare what they have lived and what they have heard about their mother. All magical stories, lies and exaggerations are nothing more than increasing the severity of your mother's destruction compared to reality. The most important cause of postpartum depression is the stratification. Growing up the mother makes the mother, a difficult job, even more stressful.

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I am sure your parents are wonderful, but I do not believe that women are sacred, perfect, or angelic after birth. On the contrary, when the hormones (luteinizing, endorphin) of the antidepressant effect secreted during pregnancy and during birth are suddenly interrupted, the mothers feel very unhappy. On the other hand, if we look at miraculous birth we can see realistically that human body is one of the most violent physical experiences that can exist. The body is experiencing physical and psychological tides while trying to balance itself to get rid of the birth and pregnancy process. But strangely, nobody tells her mother. Other women tell us how much milk they have come from, how beautiful their lives will be, and how wonderful the experience is. Doctors see mothers as a physical act only and do not feel the need to prepare the mothers for psychological processes to live. His father is often unaware of the righteous living. While talking about motherhood sanctity, it is not easy for everyone to talk about these 'tiny' difficulties.

The difference between postpartum and other depressions is that the asking for help is much more difficult for the new mother. Our social judgments about maternity prevent your mother from asking for help. While everyone is telling about their wonderful experiences with their motherhood, my new mother does not have the courage to say 'I'm tired' or 'I'm very unhappy'. She can not admit you've missed her old life. She's afraid to be seen as a bloody, isolated, bad mother. The new mother has fallen with guilt, inadequacy and shame. On the other hand, postpartum depression can become more serious without psychological or social support. Mother and baby can have traumatic consequences in your life. Social support groups created for mothers in Europe and America share their experiences of mothers living in similar processes without judging each other. In Turkey, unfortunately, not such a case. New mothers need to get help from a psychologist or find support from family and friends. However, relatives who come to congratulate their mothers, grandparents who almost protect mother and baby grandparents and babies, unfortunately do not work any more than increase their mother's stress. My mother needs someone who says, understands, understands, and says "I feel them." For this you can live the world famous singer Adele after birth. Even if you are loved by millions of people, you can not find someone to support you.