I forget to take a step back and view other perspectives. I get swept up in the immediacy of how I feel and how I think... where if I could just take that distance and gain that perspective... well, I think I'd be a much better and kinder person. Something work on perhaps 😁
I completely agree with you- you have to choose your battles...and like others have said- i actually think that this is the oposite of selfish.
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