Greetings, dear @ trucklife-family. I like the close relationship you have with your daughters and I understand that the emotion of the moment varies the terms of what you want to express. I think that that has to be clarified to the girls in due course. Love is not fickle, love is "without measures". Wanting more or wanting less should not be conditioned by an emotion or momentary perception. They must understand that their love for you does not fluctuate, it simply is. That they want to saturate their aunt with love, seeking healing, is splendid and talks about the great work you have done as a mother. However, that has nothing to do with what they feel towards you, not because they should love you more or want less, you should simply clarify that if they love their aunt more than before due to the circumstance they are living, but she is her , you are you and love is so great that it is not limited to anyone and they should understand this unconditional love. Thank you or share what you are living that, somehow goes out of the way.