Let's teach children to prevent others from mastering them

cindycam (70)in #edu-venezuela • 5 years ago

The world is full of people who, with or without intention, always want others to do what they want and this is seen in all areas.

The reasons why people are influenced can depend on:

There are people who need the approval of others to feel integrated, changing their way of thinking and being so as not to feel rejected.
There are those who avoid conflict at all costs.
There are also doubters, those who have doubts and have a hard time making decisions.
There are people who have been educated with very little autonomy.

When people go out into the world, they are really afraid, and because of that, they are easily dominated.

How to determine manipulative and dominant people?

Aggressive. This is to get things easily.
The high tone of voice uses it to intimidate.
Charismatic person With this behavior, visualize the way to convince.
Person who makes continuous reproaches. they do this, in order to obtain, things of other people that they have helped in any eventuality.

The dominant can be defined in many ways and that is that there are many types of behavior.

These are points so that children can have autonomy when going through a moment of manipulation and know how to set limits.

Resultado de imagen para niÃ±os manipulados por otros niÃ±os

Be clear about what you want from the situation and the people.
Put limits, always deciding what is not negotiable. The aspects that are mainly related to personal life that are not negotiable.
Work on security and self-confidence. This will help, since it does not need the approval of any person, so it should not change depending on the person around him.
Know how to interpret situations correctly.
Know the weak points and strengthen them. When learning this, a limit is given to the manipulator, who is very skilled and knows what the weaknesses are, knows where to attack.
Do not make hasty decisions, as they may be incorrect.
Learn to say "NO".
Show security with the way of being, your presence and your speech.
You can not please everyone because then you stop indulging yourself.