SCHOOL FOR PARENTS: Believe and trust your son

If you indicate trust and respect for your child, you will understand that you understand him or her as a person with their own attitudes, beliefs and needs.

SourceOn the one hand, we are inclined to talk about respecting the child's personality, protecting the rights of the child, sympathizing with the difficulties faced by children in school and elsewhere ... And, on the other hand, we forget that the biggest problems The children are related to us, the parents.

The lack of respect for a child's personality is shown when:

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• You insult him, you compare him with other children (especially with his brother or older sister), criticism without arguments, minimizes ...
• You treat him as if he were younger than his age (for example, you hit him like a baby, although he is already of school age).
• Solve your problems without asking for help (for example, to deal with conflicts with other children) or do the task, because you are convinced that you can not do it alone (for example, fix your room).
• Talk to him as if they could not understand (for example, the story of the birth of babies, but the child's problem in this topic clearly shows that it is necessary to provide a concrete and correct answer). Parents mitigate or misinterpret the various facts of life, in part because the child can not present them correctly, but in part because it is easier to lie to discuss a particular topic.
• Check your belongings for the secrets they try to hide. A child has the right to privacy, up to a point. And yet, a little that will resist without becoming the diary or pockets of a baby, or seeing text messages on your mobile phone. Failure to respect the privacy of children is one of the basic forms of lack of respect for the child's personality. For this, communication between parents and children is very important.
• Insist that the child fulfill his ambitions and unfulfilled wishes, instead of the child building and fulfilling his own dreams.

Encourage the child to grow.

Knowing the current stage of child development is of great importance to show respect for personality.

Parents often "arrive late" after two years and, for example, see their eight-year-old children as if they were six ... At one stage, it is necessary to know their final reach and motivate the child to arrive.

In this way, a real or objective image of the child's development is presented. Certainly he will not be fascinated by everything his son does or in any of his actions to look for great elements, but he will be able to encourage him to continue developing.

Relationship with the child

Finally, the most important of all, in respect to respecting the personality of the child, is aware that your child is only a child. He is not an adult and does not deserve to be burdened with his own ambitions and unfulfilled dreams, nor with his problems.

At the same time, it is an individual by itself, completely unique, that is in constant change and development. Only if you learn to respect the child and all its diversity, can you respond in the same way.

Their mutual relationship, based on mutual respect, is a guarantee of their good relations in the future. If you indicate trust and respect for your child, you will understand that you understand him or her as a person with their own attitudes, beliefs and needs. Thanks to that, you will be free to be what you are, keeping in you an eternal ally.

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Posted from my blog with SteemPress : http://deisip67.vornix.blog/2018/11/29/school-for-parents-believe-and-trust-your-son/

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