What are the skills for success?

in #edu-venezuela5 years ago

Success is the ability to achieve your goals and find ways to achieve them, success is predictable and then there are steps that will help in the implementation of any conceived goal.


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Start the day with pleasant emotions! The excitement with which you start your morning creates the atmosphere for the whole day! Therefore, it is IMPORTANT: Start the morning with a smile!

Forget the bad. Stop talking about what you would like to forget from time to time. It's easy to forget any unpleasant event in life if you don't even remember it!

Build confidence in yourself! Trust yourself, believe in your skills, feel that you have control over your life and believe that you are able to do what you plan and expect.

Never run anywhere, in a hurry you may not notice or forget something really important.


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Whatever you do, do it "perfectly well"! It doesn't matter if they look at you or not! Whatever you do, do a little more than the prescribed work tasks.

Find an unusual way to solve family problems, activate creative thinking. Therefore, you will find the best and original approach to solve any task and get out of any difficult situation more quickly and efficiently.

Be among the people, make good friends. Singles rarely become truly happy, singles rarely succeed. Remember this.

Don't be ashamed of your habits! The more effort you put in to avoid balancing your foot, not shaking a chair, the more you will be distracted from the main task and spend your energy. Your habit is your individual form of concentration!

Pay attention to what your attention is directed! When you realize the details of what you are focusing on, you have the opportunity to choose your thoughts and notice more. The more you can notice, the more effectively you can react, act, navigate quickly through the situation and make decisions.

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Do not regret the money for your development, books, self-education: by investing in yourself, you always make a profit!
Do not save money for emotions: travel, be in new places, make discoveries. Keep nice impressions in a discovery box, the more pleasant impressions and discoveries you have in your life, the happier and richer your life will be. Nice impressions, unlike things, remain with you forever!

1.Use your strengths.
When there is an interview, they ask you a question that you don't understand, to avoid an awkward pause and not feel silly, start talking about what you understand well! According to the principle: "do what you do well!"

If he asks me to make a cake, but I don't know how, then I will tell him: "I will barely make a cake, but I can cook a great soup or a compote!"

2.Focus your thoughts on the desired. Remember that the focus of thoughts on the desired attracts the desired, the focus of the thoughts on the undesirable, what is not desired. Keep a record of your thoughts, to which it points, it becomes stronger. Therefore, it is useful to ask yourself from time to time:

"What do I think will lead me to happiness?"
"What do I think, where does it take me?"

3.The world is capable of giving us much more than we take! We can notice and accept only what we are ready for. Therefore, if for some reason you are not satisfied with the surrounding reality, then it is time to look within yourself.

4.Develop intuition. Intuition is a certain superpower, which makes it possible to obtain information inaccessible to most people, not solving the tasks posed, but following the internal feeling, how to proceed. In the course of unconscious work, the brain processes the information, compares the current situation with a simple experience template and issues a prepared response that can be not only a direct decision, but manifests itself in the format of feelings and sensations.

The more developed your intuition is, the one you listen to, the faster and more successfully you will make decisions.

1.Live by the rule of "being, don't seem!"
Trying to appear in a more favorable light is equivalent to what seems to be living, and not being alive. Therefore, it is important to understand and accept who you are and not change yourself. Recognizing themselves on their bleak sides of personality, honestly answering the most difficult questions to themselves.

2.Develop empathy. Every time you meet a person who behaves rudely, uneducated, think of a pitiful story about him. About what could have caused this behavior, for example: "Perhaps this man was educated without parents, in an atmosphere of emotional alienation, without friendly support, in the fight for his own life and safety, because of which he developed such qualities".
This ability will allow you to treat different people better, show them more sympathy and understanding, be more attentive to the needs of other people.

3.Forgive your mistakes. Something to learn is possible only through trial and error, so skills and knowledge are acquired.

Reference:

https://kidshealth.org/es/teens/assertive-esp.html
http://apoyo.saludestudiantil.uc.cl/index.php/saber-mas?task=verItem&id_item=26&vista=sabermas

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