Stop Bullying...!

Dad, Mom ... Do you want to intimidate or intimidate? Here are some recommendations for you.

• Encourage communication: to know what happens in the life of your child, you must promote effective communication to discover what affects you and so you can guide. Do not always impose your will for simply being the authority.

• Differentiate situations: not every mockery is bullying, eye with this; It is important to help differentiate it. Many times the true intention of a joke, a laugh or just a bad comment is confused. Also, remember that throughout your life you will meet people who like to draw attention in that way and should not be affected by this.

• Learn to defend yourself: live with your child, not with him; show you tools like dialogue, decide, forgive ... Yes, defend without falling into aggression. Do not do what your child can do for himself.

• Avoid preferences among your children: if you have several children, edit them with the same rights, skills and principles ... There is no difference between their potentialities to be feminine or masculine, the greatest or the least important, or to have different personalities. Each one is a unique and special being.

• Give more time and less things: quality and not quantity; and learn the value of what you receive, not the cost.

• Set limits according to your age: and you will learn to put limits on your life.

• Seed values: remember that children are not born with malice, they do not discriminate, they do not mock, they do not humiliate... Until someone shows them how to do it.

As you can see, well, nothing complicated ... so do not worry, just take care! The first years of life (0 to 6 years) are crucial to define your personality and that is where we must act, we do not expect to reach the stage of adolescence to educate, because it will be much more difficult.

Let's make good children, independent, critical and self-critical ... Remember that nobody learns to live from the experiences of others, so each one must have their own experiences. Do not copy the parenting patterns because maybe, as you were taught, you were not the best role model; Therefore, be genuine and responsible in the education of your children.