Another amazing show!oops,came in late today!
Just like a married woman once told me;"marry a man that loves you and someone that you love,marriage is a journey.
Marry a man that has an income no matter how small,a goal getter,you can build together.
Money is necessary in marriage,or else disputes about finance start coming in".

Like it or not,a woman needs money to keep looking good,suffer head dey show for face."

Advice for Anonymous: Motherhood is not a walk in the park. You have to be emotionally,psychologically,mentally,
financially prepared to be one. If the man doesn't love you,it will affect your being in the long run.
Having a baby will be a constant reminder of a man who do not love you. It might even make it harder to move on from him.
Without family or consistent friends support,the burden might be too much on your shoulders alone. And most times,you are on your own once you have the baby.

And you know the societal stigma in the long run. Ask single mums what they go through.

Weigh your options and look at what is best for you. I notice that men do not hesitate to state what they want,no matter the pressure. Fight for your happiness and a child out of fatherly love will still suffer emotionally.
@zizymena, if she still wants to talk more about this,she can message me on discord for a private chat.