What Makes A Person Fall In Love

Family, environmental and educational backgrounds are the reasons and factors that differ from one's perspective on "love". This different perspective influences the causes of someone falling in love. Nevertheless, broadly speaking, the causes of falling in love are as follows:

1) Because of the charm of physical beauty

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In general, a man assesses women for the first time in physical appearance. This is subjective, meaning that everyone has a different point of view and different way of assessing a woman's physical, and vice versa, women also have different ways and points of view in physically assessing men. When associated with the form of facial expression, every woman has a different face shape, then the way of the view of men is also different. If I like Pretty Shinta not necessarily you and others, and vice versa. Everyone is different in judging and understand the beauty and charm of one's physical beauty.

But the beauty of her beauty is dependent on her skill in caring for her face and body. A mediocre face will look beautiful and nice if treated well. So also the body, if treated properly, will bring the charm of its own beauty.

Generally, a man likes a woman's physical with the characteristics of a white and sweet face or black sweet face, slim, smooth and soft skin, long hair loose, her eyes are clear and wistful, her eyelashes flecked, her seductive cheeks seductive, her lips are thin and sexy, her teeth lined up in shiny white, her nose is pointed, and her eyebrows were black in order, her eyelashes were flickering, and her chin was sweetly split, and had no physical defect.

In addition, clotting factors can also enhance one's physical beauty. The dirty clothing was impressed grungy and dirty. No man likes and falls in love with dirty women. Vice versa, no woman who likes men who look like a pedicab driver, dirty and smell.

Therefore, beauty and hygiene are important in order to add harmony in romantic relationships and households. According to some narrations, The Prophet of Muhammad looked happier with Aishah than her other wives. Humanly, it is acknowledged that Ayesha was more beautiful than his other wives. He also called her with "Humaira" (a reddish). His call to Aisha with name "Humaira" shows the difference of his love for Aisha from the other wives because of beauty that is owned by Aisha.

Even he ordered his people (Muslims) who want to marry a woman to first see the woman (prospective wife). In the procession of the Khitbah, it is advisable to see the woman carefully and correctly. Be careful previous is better than regret later. In the customs and culture of the people of Aceh is often said "Jak beutroh kalon beudeuh, bek rugoe meuh saket hate" (in the Aceh language).

It shows the tendency of men in women's beauty. But Islam never makes beauty a requirement in marriage. Precisely, Islam emphasize other things beyond physical beauty.

In addition, be careful with beauty because many women who become despised because they feel themselves beautiful. Many men also end up disappointed after marrying a beautiful woman because it turns out beauty is not the main factor to happiness in the household. Beauty is only as thin as ari. Although not denying the importance of facial beauty, But do not make "Physical Beauty" as a benchmark in choosing a spouse (wife).

2) Because of the charm of personality

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Some physical beauty people are not so much considered, but they prefer a mental or personal beauty. Because they rate personality more lasting than physical beauty. This personality is concerned with the readiness of a person in running and navigating this life. Personality includes good morals, faithfulness, openness, transparent, (no secrets), and broad insight. From the superior personality will radiate authority.

In navigating and running a household life, this personality role covers almost all sides of the household life. Without a good and superior mentality (personality), households will quickly wear out (not last long). What's more, the household that always comes up with thousands of household problems, then the role of personality is very important and very decisive comfort in the household.

When the household is on the verge of collapse because of many household problems, at certain moments the element of physical beauty does not mean (can not save the household from destruction). Especially when associated with age, beauty will quickly fade even more for those who are not good at caring for beauty.

Therefore, the attraction to the beauty of one's personal charm as a foundation for love is the perspective of one who saves the future of the home. The future of the household is the future of the next generation that needs to get a good example of the perpetrator (husband and wife). A good example exists only in a good personality, not on beauty face and beauty of the body.

3) Because of Material Element, and Feeling Want To Have and There Harmony (Compatibility)

Another cause or factor of someone falling in love is because of the presence of material elements such as wealth, rank, and position. Not a few married based on this material factor.

Many cases of men cheating on the grounds that what is needed of his wife is the wealth of his wife is not the body and the beauty of his wife's body. Generally this kind of man, he reasoned that his wife's body has no appeal to him. So he went out of the house looking for another woman. Conversely, not a few women who want to marry just because of the rich man and have high rank and position. Love like this is not true love, this is just one of the love models that fall within the category of "Love of the Materials".

Another factor that causes a person to fall in love is because of the feeling of wanting to have and the existence of compatibility. A man acknowledges the physical beauty of a woman, yet a man who has no feelings for loving and having a woman is a man of the basket's eye. They only think for the satisfaction of his lust alone. In contrast to men who want to have women, they will try to find out who the woman is ?. Asking about his status, and his education, and most importantly his family and residence.

Love will not be united and integrated if only one of them who saw or noticed. Love will be materialized and blossomed when they have met each other and one taste (love). If it turns out that the woman has no feelings of love and is reluctant to see her, then love will clap one hand.

Hence, love exists because there is a feeling of belonging and there are many matches and similarities between them. If the heart, the taste, and the love are unified, the true love will exist.

Thanks For Your Time
The Best Regards, @ijoel

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