March 6th. Are you a follower - How invested in others opinion are you

Today I watched a movie.
Aqua Man !
I do like all these types of movies. Yep ,all the Iron man movies. Spider Man also. I think they are nice movies that the family can enjoy together.

Aqua Man is one of these movies. A bright , colorful movie for the whole family. So enjoy

Yesterday I watched a movie. What , yes , another movie. ;)
Robin Hood !
General I like Robin Hood movies. Just to be straight and not confuse anyone. “Robin Hood Men in Tights” was not then nor is it now a Robin Hood movie. Now I have seen every real Robin Hood movies from Earl Flynn until now. This current Robin Hood is a little dark, fast paced and with a little violent moments throughout the movie. Moms general don’t like the shooter up type of movie.

I am suppose to watch a movie about PTSD that everyone here was talking about. “Thank you for your Service” I have not seen it yet. To be honest I really don’t feel like seeing it at this time. You have to get in the right frame of mind before viewing . To close to home. But I will watch it. And the other draw back is I have to rent it.

I watch this weekly show it is called “ New Amsterdam” its about a doctor who gets cancer. That’s a little to close to hometown to watch sometimes. But there is a differences. And it does have it effect every once in awhile.

Things that we experience in our life make us who we are. The good and the bad experiences both combined to form our opinions and attitude on different subjects. How we react to situations is all based on or past experiences.
We should learn to live with and use our experiences to improve our lives. Not use them as an excuse for our failures or shortcomings. Its not and easy thing to do for most because it is in our culture. We are taught to be the victim.

Accountability is not required because of victimization. Its in ours court decision, our school and has gone mainstream. We make excuses and give sympathy to predators and scold there victims.

I always ask the question of why and Who is to benefit from such policies and conditions. We for the most part are a compliant people, unless of course you are a real victim. We just go with the flow and follow like good little sheep. After all we don’t want to rock the boat. Why put yourself out there for doing the right thing. Being a whistleblower is not a popular place to be.

I will keep my past and all the baggage that comes with it. All the heartaches and good times. Scars and wrinkles that all make me who I am. Most of all my integrity. I will not compromise or sell my integrity. People seem to give this one item away every time for many reasons.

If you do not know what your opinion is or cannot defend it without getting violent or emotional you might have lost your integrity a long time ago and just became someone’s puppet.

People seem to come to beliefs that no matter what new challenges come to their belief they will not adapt or change these beliefs. We are not only talking about religion but also politics, vaccines or any other mainstream view that we have been exposed to.
Being exposed to an idea then defending it with figure, without any personnel experience in the matter concerns me. Makes me question all aspects of your motives and the validity of your claim.

Don't walk behind me; I may not lead. Don't walk in front of me; I may not follow. Just walk beside me and be my friend. Albert Camus

wolfhart