OMG. This is complete madness. Everyone in that family is dragging various traumas things that are difficult for them to handle. But it particularly disturbs me the baby issue because the medical act is unfair they never looked for a cause they just wanted to wait for the worse state of gravity of the baby to show some kind of child neglect. Which is not logical first you have to safeguard the baby life and second you have to find the real source of the problem because there are many pathologies that can cause little weight gain for babies. If nothing organic is shown there yes you can think of child neglect or something like that.