Your Husband Is Not A Psychologist
Your husband is not a psychologist who is profession to be able to read the mind as erroneously believed that psychologist can. Each time I told some people I studied psychology in the university, they would ask, "what is on my mind as I speak to you?" I would tell them I was not trained to be a mind reader. "When I didn't undergo a training in sorcery", I would jokingly remark.
Most women expect their husbands to have intuition into things. They will be like "can't he read in-between the lines?"
Women are blessed with intuitive instinct that helps them see into things in abstraction. Most women are like most teachers who believe that students should not have problems comprehending concepts judging by how those concepts appear very simple to them as teachers.
Men are logical beings and not as intuitive as women. By wiring, men can relate to things in concrete terms as they can only observe the obvious emotional flames but can't relate with the cause of the spark. He is asking 'what is wrong?'' "Could it be that I have spoken to her harshly or because I have not given her the money she asked for". He may not be able to pinpoint what is actually wrong.
Wives should learn to communicate and not expect their husbands to read their minds to decipher or decrypt the code of what is wrong. It is better than bottling up issues (since he can't read through things) until there is an explosion of emotions.
Women are used to be pursued. It is the man that must initiate sex; he must also initiate a communication process. These are myths. A woman too has the reserved right to initiate any of those. You are a stakeholder.
Talking is a therapy, Call for a meeting to talk and not with the intention to fight. You can't fight a man (a natural fighter) and win the battle. If you do, you will get hurt the more. Be wise!
Thank you for your time.
To your marital peace and bliss,
Muyiwa Daniel Adigun
July, 2019.
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