Elder Child's fault
I watched this video about a man scolding his kid,
This kid basically poured bleach on his plants.
The plants died. He did it unintentionally.
Of course, he's extremely furious.
Father couldn't contain his anger.
He's not only hit that child[but not that hard]
but I'm very dissatisfied when he pinched the older brother
Basically the argument is,
"why you don't take care of your little brother?"
"why you don't watch over what he's doing"
"You are the first child, you have to pay for this, for not being responsible enough"
"Just accept your fate as the first child"
I'm loathe over the act as well as the response from people.
Unfortunately, the public agree on that matter.
I'm not talking about the small child, the father didn't hit him hard,
I see it just to threaten him...
but I anyway don't like when he said, "You're not my son"
but he admitted his fault,
he was so angry at that time, he didn't think about it.
case settled for him
but not this first child, as injustice will always be normalized for him.
next time, when other younger siblings do something wrong, he'll be again at fault.
I will discuss about this in general, not only involve this man but the life of this sick society
I feel disgusting,
why we give birth to so many children when we don't even have time to watch over all of them?
why?
and then we expect our first kid to take care of our other kids,
and if something goes wrong, we say the first kid not responsible
we are the one who are not responsible,
just know how to make kids, and expect others to take care of them.
We could just make kid/kids that we able to care!But we are too snobbish
always competing, who has more,
that first kid don't even ask to be our kid, to have that "destiny"
if they have a chance of course they want to have better destiny.
Why would we deny their rights?
They are children, they need to live as children and not because of us
irresponsible parents, they have to keep watching over younger siblings
24 hours!
Afraid what might've gone wrong
if only kid is given the chance to speak...
but of course they won't
too much of brainwashing, say something 'not nice' to parents will enter hellfire, you will have bad luck!
seems like these parents really invulnerable to hellfire sarcasm