I am so sorry you are going through this. I live in the United States in Indiana which is considered a green state for home schooling, meaning the only thing you have to do is keep attendance and make sure they have 180 days of instruction, but the state leaves it up for us and only the state superintendent can ask for those records. And at least with Child protection and Home schooling if we are messed with we have the HSLDA which for $11 a month will have attorney send out letters on your behalf to stop harassment and if needed even pay for an attorney to defend you if it goes that far.