Men do not face such women's fears, such as fear of spiders or large dogs. Contrary to a common stereotype, men also have fears. And this is absolutely normal. But men's fears are not phobia, and therefore incurable.
Woman's refusal
Even a woman cannot understand a woman, let alone men. Woman understand can be, but not always is true. The man has doubts whether he understood the woman correctly. The result is the following: instead of enjoying the evening in good company, on a date a man does not behave quite habitually, thereby earning sexual dysfunction. There is a way out: it is necessary to raise self-esteem. Convince yourself that no failure will follow. You can even drink alcohol, for courage, but not more than a portion. In case of refusal, a man should take it philosophically.
Bad luck in bed
The most important part of the male body is the reproductive organ. Any, even very high self-esteem will disappear without a trace, if this body fails at the right time. The picture becomes even more gloomy, if you remember the importance of the female orgasm. In order to avoid such situations, you should lead a healthy lifestyle, observe the sleep mode. Do not abuse alcohol or use drugs. To abandon the existing bad habits and start to exercise.
Authority
The reason for the fear of the authorities lies in the following: it is able to turn the person into a part of the mechanism that does not have the right to vote. This fear makes men do crazy things. For example, to give up work, not to obey teachers. So men are trying to preserve their independence and personal freedom. But the reality of our life is as follows: the authorities can not all avoid. But if you treat it as a means to achieve their own goals, the power will not harm the character.
Treason
Family crumbling due to infidelity, relationships break down. It destroys love. No man wants to "wear horns." But more fear on him catching up with what he can change. The fear is that treason can happen by accident. Women can take this fear in different ways: some rejoice, while others are concerned about it.
A wasted life
As a rule, men have such a fear occurs at the age of 35 to 40 years. Many look at the life lived, and understand that almost nothing causes a smile. Many know it is a manifestation of the midlife crisis. Maybe he did not make anything outstanding in his life, but believe me, even those who have lived a life not in vain, feel the same. It's not about achievements, but in the banal reaction of the body. Do not worry, this state does not last long. We will give the following advice to women: be near and support a man. If everything is too neglected, you should seek help from a psychotherapist.
Changes
For men, old and familiar is associated with reliability. It is not typical for a man as a woman to change his image every month. As he is not used to change the atmosphere in the apartment. But think about it: after all, changes refresh life, you only have to accept it as an interesting and entertaining adventure.
Defeat
There is no place for men to be weak. Any defeat can greatly underestimate self-esteem. It does not matter what kind of defeat and in what area. In early childhood, men begin to compete with each other. If it starts to smell of competition among men, immediately include the brain. Do not need a lot, just do not get upset at the defeat. The best prevention of fear of defeat is a healthy optimism.
Loneliness
This fear in men is much stronger than in women. That people around didn't feel his weakness, the man, as a rule, is silent about it. In our world, it is so accepted that if the wife is not nearby, then at least a constant partner. If a man's life is not so, then he lost the competition among men. There comes a moment in everyone's life, even the most hardened bachelor, when he is visited by thoughts of creating a family. Do not worry, this is a normal phenomenon, so inherent nature.
Mockeries
Among men considered to be weak, ridiculous man. These men are afraid to be in an awkward situation. If this happens, start laughing at yourself first. Self-irony is able to turn the mountains, and you will notice that the surrounding themselves reach for you. Do not forget that the boundaries is self-esteem, so do not go over them.
Weakness
Because of the fear of seeming weak to others, a man can do push-ups, even when his hands are shaking. He will be looking for a way to the right place in an unfamiliar city. In the eyes of women globally, such action is stupid. But the man will do anything, if only he was not considered weak.
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