It Is Not By Force V, Contributed By @Olawalium.
…continued… from part 1, part 2, part 3 and part 4
This guy is clearly taking advantage of this lady’s youthfulness and ignorance. He has already shows what he wants from her and the best she can do is to flee. Someone with an appetite like that would run her ragged and they usually have insatiable appetite if not tamed. I think he would best fit a porn star hahaha.
The good thing about this situation is, it is redeemable and she can still opt out and I never said it would be easy but she needs to stick to her grounds. Her life is more important than how the society would perceive her. Destiny is not emotional and she needs to do what’s best for her and her alone, but if she still feels this is the guy for her, she should be ready to adjust her mind and life to these new changes she isn’t used to.
A lot of people sometimes need to look past their feelings and know that marriage is a long term project. Many people don’t think this far and it is not safe at all. You shouldn’t think you would find the next exit at any point. When we have the mind set of getting off the ship at any time then it shows we won’t and can’t give our best in the first place. Marriage is way past looking for convenience which is why you need to be sure and choose right. Running off or jumping off the ship will even get people talking; if you are the type that is always concerned by what people say or think, so try to get it right, right away.
There is no love in this arrangement; the guy and lady we are treating. He wants her just to fulfil expectations of matrimonial obligations. He obviously wants a sexually experienced virgin and this lady is not. To avoid frustration, hatred, anger and loathing, they should both path ways because she won’t be happy in the marriage and he won’t be able to have his libido satisfied; at least to the expectation of the porn ladies he has been accustomed to.
…to be continued…
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@olawalium sir!
The desire to attain attraction and physical pleasure of opposite sexes is transient.Neither the society permits for the physical relations before marriage nor does the argument be consistent.If the younger generation is ready to do so, then it definitely requires guidance and culture. You have given a very accurate example of landing from the airplane. If we have to do all this, then do it legally(after marriage), otherwise by jumping from the window, do damage.
Hahahahaha nice analogy; jumping from the window will do the damage. A lot of people try to do it to determine sexual compatibility and that is mostly because I think their motive for going into marriage is primarily for sex.
Thank you, my friend.
Hello @olawalium For person who marriage for the sake of sex only, the porn star would be a perfect match for him. The lady should stay away this type of person who just want to use her body.
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Beautiful. The guy is obviously interested in the body and his fantasies. A porn star would fit him since that is his standard. He doesn't understand or attribute any value to woman's body.
Yes the man should go for porn stars rather than just wasting the innocent girl time
I hope the lady think what's best for her is to leave him and find her new way