Just because we know some people to be natural about friendship doesn’t mean we should feel laid back and enjoy all the attention while we take their caring nature for granted. True friendship has no class barrier

Like I said few days ago, those that are vulnerable will always be to one to get attacked When there is too much affection from one side, the person giving this much attention is bound to meet his doom, which shouldn't be, just because your friends always look out for you have now turn it to avenue showing lackadaisical attitude and neglect your own contribution.

You have to power to choose and decide whom you wanted to become friends with which is different from being in love since we don't always have absolute control over relationships but we have the right and power to decide whom we want to be friends with, I believe in this popular saying, show me your friends and I will know a kind of person you are, we should always be careful while deciding who to become friends with, choose a friendship build on loyalty and always look at your back if you realized you have been overstepped and taken for granted, you have to right to back out from such friendship before it hurt you to the extent that you won't be able to forgive yourself.

Mutual agreement will always go along way in building a perfect relationship when it comes to friendship, friendship is always cordial when we are still in our early 20s to 30s since legs haven't crippled in domesticity, once one have a family the intimacy is not always that strong again since majority of the time is always dedicated to one's family but true friendship always reach out to one another, in a situation whereby just one is always the first to reach out first and make moves is not always the best.

So, when your friends complain to you about what you have stopped doing because they have been used to what you used to do; the good stuff of course, then it is only reasonable to quickly address it or explain IF that friendship really means anything to you.

You are absolutely right on this, we must be able to account for all our action whether good or bad if we are to make friendship work out,....

I'm sorry and it won't happen again, I believe this will help a lot in keeping the friendship in good term always.