RE: When You Have One. II, Contributed by @Olawalium
It's good to keep friends and to keep good friends matter most.
- But my question is
What do we value most in choose friendship?
Be it friendship or any other types of relationship, I value the person (fully) I am in the relationship with.
And do you know why?
Qualities are not something that last forever, time change, situation may change and it might happen that what you valued most in a person is no more in him/ her. And I think you know what that will lead to. Hehehehe
But when you value a person, you accept them with all their qualities and their flaws, (yes) no body is perfect here, we all have some or the other flaw. Or you tell me who doesn't have?
Why don't we Look for a girl with the broken smile, and ask her if she is gonna be alright. And she will be loved". How about that?
If you are looking for qualities of a friend, I would suggest you to be rather a quality friend of someone who might need you.
Thanks @olawalium
am with you friend, quality are not that important when choosing friends, nothing last forever what you like about him or her today, you may not see it tomorrow
Friendship must have value, same with when you are dating a lady. The person should need You, Yes, but it goes both ways. That is why we talked about friendship being mutual. You should be able to be needed to each other because one way friendship isn't Friendship, we are all humans. You should be able to add value as much as you are receiving too.
Quality is not in appearance but in character. One important quality is dependability. When you know you can always depend on your friend. Humans have different qualities, so when one quality seems to be absent there are many others qualities in our friends that are present. If you really read through part one and two, You will understand this better. When our friend seem to loose his or her edge, it is our duty to remind them of their qualities and bring it back up. Friendship reminds, it helps, it nurtures. True friendship has no class barrier. Qualities are not in THINGS, but in character. If the character is real, it is hard to lose it but in case that friend does, fan it back into flame. That is when your friend need you the most.
Thanks bro