Having had two very close and personal losses timed so closely to each other I can't say my grieving process will ever end at a specific time or phase.

I love the quote you shared about how it's our love that causes the pain. It is so spot on. I need not miss them, but my love for them will always bring tears. Something most are inclined to judge as not having dealt with the grief.

Not many understand, ppl say it gets better over time....we just adjust our expression of love around it.

One of the most compassionate thing you did was to go seeking for some help. The worst thing on top of dealing with grief is the sense of isolation with the world, cuz no one can possibly understand the days that follow. Having ppl around you who understand makes a huge difference. God knows how many people I cut out of my life when I just couldn't stand anymore patronising soothsayers.

I'm glad you wrote this piece and look forward to the ones to come. It will help those who read it regardless of which part of the journey one is in.

Congratulations on your well deserved Curie vote. Wishing you many more to come.