Like you it seems common sense to limit/avoid bad foods as much as possible especially when nurturing young children. There are plenty of healthy substitutes for things such as fizzy drinks etc - I used to give my son a dash of fresh juice topped up with carbonated water as a treat; most of the time he was happy with water.

I never bought jarred baby food but blended our well balanced meals for him instead.

I guess it is all about awareness, education and taking responsibility for ourselves and our own.

If someone feels judged it is probably because somewhere/somehow, subconsciously, they realise that they are falling short on their responsibilities. It can be irksome to have the light shone on our failings!

Happy munching.

xox