HITING YOUR LADY "A forbidden Act"
Women are priceless, and without them the world would never had been as fruitful as it is now, even I wouldn't have existed if not because of a woman, of course men are needed as well, but the feminine gender in existence plays a very delicate and crucial role.
Women are meant to be respected, loved and treated as a natural queen in which they are, for a sec imagine a world without women, trust me it's would have been a fruitless word.
Every women is naturally a mother, with all the love the have to give in their arsenal.
In any relationship, there are always quarrels, misunderstanding and argument, and of a truth, at times, women could be really stubborn or even arrogant to their man, though no one is perfect, but no matter how annoying they act, as a man you should NEVER hit her.
It's pretty sad when I see or hear some men exercising masculinity on their lady, by beating her up at a slight error or quarrel, in most cases, these men will return to ask for forgiveness and try to buy her gifts in order to appease for their wrongs, but shortly after it all dies down, they're back at it again, and in some cases these females lose their lives, and for the lucky ones, they tend to leave such relationship or marriage.
Sadly domestic violence against women has become the order of the day in so many relationships regardless of the tribe or country.
Whether religion or even the law supports or frown against the act, it doesn't matter, anyone who hits his wife or woman to me is actually less of a man than he knows and have no dignity.
I unfortunately happened to witness a scene of a pregnant woman who was angrily beaten to death by her husband, just because of an argument, though he was arrested, I couldn't help but weep profusely, even till now I haven't gotten over it, having followed up the story, after the woman was taken to the hospital, they tried to rescue the baby but was quite unfortunate, I still have a year in my eyes, even while writing this😥.
And it is quite sad that some men feel superior when they hit their ladies for any reason whatsoever.
Women go through a lot naturally, ranging from monthly menstrual pain, and even pain at child birth, and despite how strong we men claim to be, we aren't strong enough to go through all the pain a woman goes through regularly, an old female friend of mine said "Men are so strong that they can't even push a baby" though this statement was like a joke from her, I felt the depth of it, and why we men need to respect women the most.
In Conclusion
As a man, you need a lot of patience and tolerance in order to be with a woman, though females can't be really complicated at times, we can never do without them, so you need to treasure your woman and show her love at all times, no matter the situation never ever hit her, always try to talk thing through, if there's love, there should be understanding amongst you and your lady, and if there's an heated argument, I would advise you step out of the house for a while in order to cool off, then later come back and resolve matter amicably,no one said any relationship would be easy, but if you Love her as you claimed from the start, please work things out and let peace abound.
CHEERS