**Just One or Two People Who Don't Like You?**

in Steem Japan3 years ago

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Just One or Two People Who Don't Like You?

Living in this world with many people. Family, friends and co-workers. Each has different properties.

That's why not everyone is cut out to be friends. There are people who match you even though you haven't known each other for a long time. On the other hand, there are also people who don't like you.

Conditions like this make you nervous. In addition, you begin to notice that as you age, the number of your friends decreases.

Humans do have a basic desire to be liked by others. You feel guilty when someone hates you, and you feel like a failure as a social being. If you don't like a lot of people at once, there may be something wrong with your attitude.

But what if only one or two people don't like you? Actually it is natural, because no human being is perfect.

You must have flaws or have made mistakes. That's what drives some people away from you. You can apologize when you make a mistake, but you can't force people to like you.

Millions of people live in this world with different characteristics. That difference can indeed make life more beautiful and colorful. But, it can also cause discord. Sometimes as humans, sometimes we gather with the same character of the person.

Out of fear of being hated, you may try hard to please everyone. No matter what you do, you can't make everyone happy. Because everyone has different preferences.

In fact, everyone has a different acceptance of what you do. So you better act as is. Try to be honest with the people around you. If someone hates you for it, so be it.

Fear of being alone. That's what makes a person stick with toxic friends. Because you are also afraid of being hated and shunned, so you don't have friends anymore.

However, the impact is very detrimental. Not only are you constantly feeling depressed, you can also become an equally toxic person.

So let your toxic friends go out of your life. Not forcing yourself to be with them, but making you suffer every day.

After releasing them all, you will see the lineup of your true friends. They are the ones who stay loyal even though you have problems. They also don't hesitate to lend a helping hand when you're in trouble.

Better to focus on people who like you. It doesn't matter if the number is not small, because in adulthood, the number of friends decreases is a natural thing. Because you don't have to be everyone's friend.

Sacrificing oneself for the sake of others is indeed a noble act. Likewise with thinking and paying attention to the people around you.

However, that doesn't mean your job is to make them happy and like you. Because, all you have to believe in to love is yourself.

If someone thinks badly of you, do some introspection, but don't stress too much. Sometimes you also need to praise and thank yourself.

The world won't end if there are one or two people who don't like you. Keep a clear mind and be kind to yourself.


*** Thank you ***

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 3 years ago 

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