Novels and animations do a lot of things to the minds of women. I would not ask females to avoid getting into a relationship at a young age but I will also encourage them to be mindful of what they consume and not prioritise love and relationships.

Your mother did well to introduce you to other things like sport, dance and singing. You travelled often to see the world too. You have been blessed to have a great mom who builds you so you don't up depending on any man.