MONEY & PLEASURE IN MARRIAGE

It's very easy to make marriage uninteresting. One way is to become negligible to pleasure.

Money is good for all marriages. No marriage can endure prolonged suffering from a state of lack.

So as a matter of fact, every couple must give it a priority to plan and multiply their sources of income.

Don't wait for a need to become a reproach before you attend to it. Very little things dissipate love in marriage.

One of them is the consistent lack of money to enjoy the basic pleasures and comfort of life.

Even though marriage is not wholly built on sex and money, money plays a major role in the success of every marriage.

There is a song by MI (Mr. Incredible) featuring WAJE (Words Aren't Just Enough). The song has a high degree in sonority because of its impressive effect and lyric.

A part of the chorus is, "Whether na one naira, baby you've got me..."

There must be a level of money required to keep a woman interested in love.

There is a limit to management of funds. When lack becomes a recurring decimal, no woman will lovingly endure it.

So beyond the thoughts to have steamy sex with your spouse, plan a healthy financial income, residences, holiday vacations and well-deserved leisure.

That a marriage is sweet is actually not because of good sex. It's mostly based on the comfort built around it.

It is not exactly healthy when couples can't plan a single holiday vacation yearly or week-long romantic indulgences to unwind, even if it is a local one.

Vacation doesn't mean that you must travel abroad. You can have a vacation outside your city. If you live in Lagos, you can come to Abuja or visit Calabar.

These are good holiday destinations in Nigeria. If you can afford to own or rent a property in any of these cities, do it.

Quarterly or yearly, go there and spend some time with your spouse and family. It refreshes your mind and reinvigorates your bond.

These things are what make sex pleasurable in marriage. They are the other components that propel the wheels of marriage.

Give good consideration to this. See you soon.