Why do we get Angry
The issue with many of us is that we don't realise what we do at times until we have engaged in it. That's how our mind can so much work. Sharing from my personal experience, there are things I have done which I knew was not under my influence but at the end of the day I found myself doing. It is kind of what Paul in the Bible that what he don't want to do, he find himself doing it. It can really be absurd right but that's just how it is.
One of the issue many of us face is the aspect of anger. I knew humans can really be funny at times that we get pissed off and we are tempted to react and then at the end of the day we find ourselves even doing what we don't want to do. That's life. One way we can overcome the urge to be angry almost always is the fact that we always avoid things that get us angry. When we avoid things that get us angry, we have solved our anger issue.
If we can control the way we get Angry, we have solved a lot of issues about our life beyond which we can imagine. Anger has destroyed a lot of homes, families and even relationships. That's to show us the issue with our society. Some of the things happening to some people and even causing their failure, if it they can control their urge to easily getting angry, it must have been avoided. That's just life for us. That's just life and it will continue that way.
The truth of the matter is, we can control anger. No matter how strong the urge of the anger comes, we can control the urge and instead of the anger to control us, we are in control of the anger and that's how it is. Gradually we begin to have victory over it. That's how it supposed to be.