SEC-S16/W3 - "Who has the strongest influence on children? Father, mother, teacher, siblings, or friends? "
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My name is @newtonb and I’m from Cameroon. I will be taking part in SEC-S16/W3 - "Who has the strongest influence on children? Father, mother, teacher, siblings, or friends? " . Please kindly read through and if possible leave positive and encouraging words for me in the comments section. Thank you all in advance.
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Okay so the topic this week has to do with children. As we all know children can easily be influenced by the circumstances surrounding them. And as such everyone and everything around them play a very important role in their growth process. I will be sharing with you in accordance to the contest topic my points of views concerning the influence parents, teachers and siblings have on children.
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As we all know the father is the head of the family and as such most of the rules that governs the family including the children are made by him. Therefore the very first authority over a child at home as a whole is the father because he is the one who decides where the child will live, what he will eat and wear. This is because most times fathers are the ones who provide for the home. Therefore the child ways of living is greatly influenced by what he/she is been provided with.
The father is also known as the paramount disciplinary master when it comes to growth of children. That’s why In homes where the family is divided, children tend to go wayward more compared to if they were United because there will be little or no discipline implemented for the children to obey. Therefore fathers have great influence on children.
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Well, anywhere we hear of father , the next entity that comes to our minds is mother. The two are interconnected. Therefore the mother is the number one teacher to the children. Whatever the mother does repeatedly before a child can have a huge influence on that child. If positive the child will follow and if negative the child will still follow because at that tender age all they know is how to receive information. They don’t know much how to select. So what ever information the mother consistently bring to the child that’s what the child will likely carry all the days of his/her life.
Therefore mothers are the pillars as far as children are concerned. They are intercessors for the children even when they are ignorant. They are the support every child needs to grow. The love of a mother is second to none. Everyone needs it. Therefore whatever influence they portray to these children at a tender age has a high possibility of becoming a habit for this children. So mothers should be careful with what they do or say around children no matter how tender they think these children may be. Children learn faster from their moms than from teachers in school we should note that.
Teachers like we all know are there to build these children me academically. Therefore giving the children the right knowledge not only about a subject but about life in general can be a huge influence on this children. Most often children may admire their teachers and desire to become like them in the future because of maybe the example the teacher is setting. Teachers play a very big role in the academic growth of a child.
Well I think siblings generally are like the first friends we all have at home before actually facing the world externally. What ever they do influences one another to a greater extent. Especially older siblings. The kind of life they live can easily be copied by the children they are living with because younger siblings always look up to older siblings as their role models especially at that tender age. They believe everything the older siblings does is correct and acceptable and that they can also do it too someday. This is because at that age they are the closest persons around them. Therefore siblings have a great percentage of influence on children.
This is the last group of people but not the least group of people we should be very careful with especially as children are concerned. As we all know, bad company corrupts good character. To me this means that if children start having bad friends it will influence then negatively and vice versa. We should be very strict with the kind of friend or company we allow our children keep because it has a significant influence on them.
I am @newtonb
Hola estimado amigo gran publicacion. Cietramente en mi pais se señala al padre como maestro disciplinario y la madre como la maestra amorosa ; lo cierto es que ambos en su estilo, son determinantes. Éxitos en tu entrada.
Gracias😊
You're absolutely right my friend. Fathers play a crucial role in the family and have a great influence on their children. They are often seen as the head of the family and make important decisions that affect the whole household, including the children.
Fathers are responsible for providing for the family, which means they have a say in where the child will live, what they will eat, and what they will wear. The child's way of living is greatly influenced by what the father provides for them.
In addition to providing, fathers are also known as the disciplinary masters in the family. They enforce rules and implement discipline to guide their children's growth. When families are divided and there is a lack of discipline, children may tend to go astray. That's why a father's influence is so important in shaping their children's behavior.
It's fascinating to see how fathers have such a significant impact on their children's lives. They are the pillars of strength and guidance in the family.
Thank you
The closest person in the world to a child is a mother. A mother plays the most important role in a child's life. Islam gave three times the rights of the father to the mother. A mother brings a child into the world after 9 months of unbearable pain. Mother's debt will never be repaid.
I'm wishing you a very wonderful goodluck in this engagement challenge.