you can choose your life rather than succumb to external situations or impulsive whims. Therefore, once you become complete and whole, or while still on the way to become one, you can choose your sexual orientation. You can choose who to be attracted to.

In my opinion.
For most people, sexual desire may arise from visual sightings or specific touches. However for the sake of sexual, need more of it all to be able to get her sexually aroused.
Sexual attraction is a thing that can't be controlled with a purpose. A person will not be able to force it to arise or disappear. Another case of sexual behavior that can be selected with the consciousness of a person based on various considerations ranging from the context of implementing the behavior to a set of norms and values inherent in his mind.

For the sake of sexuality are also often considered one eye by society, particularly when it is experienced by women. Because the dominant culture framework expects more women submisif or passive in the context of sexuality, for the sake of his sexuality was not considered a ' difference ' is significant.
Thank for this my Teacher @nomad-magus