About Criticism

The most honest and most righteous criticism is the criticism given by those closest to us, most dear to us, who knows best about us, knows best about our daily lives.

Criticism from the closest person who wants us to progress and develop, is better than criticism that even tends to be condescending from others who just want to see us fall.

Giving criticism also has a way and ethics, the clerics of the past, if giving criticism and suggestions, are not in crowded places or public places, because the criticism or suggestion will turn into insults. This is to maintain the self-esteem of those who are criticized so as not to be ashamed.

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Give criticism and suggestions also have ethics and rules.

Based on the purpose and intention of criticizing, there are also two criticisms, first criticizing with the intention of finding fault and destroying the reputation of the criticized person. This kind of criticism is necessary to examine the truth, if it is true, correct it, if it turns out to be incorrect, it is slander, just ignore it. Responding to critics like this will only waste time and energy.

The second is to criticize for reasons of seeking and repairing. Usually they will find the right time and place to search for criticism and input that builds this. Responding to criticism like this, we need to be serious, because their intentions and goals are good, for the sake of progress and improvement of all parties in the future. We need to pay full attention to this kind of advice and advice.

Critics and suggestions should be input as a basis or evaluation for a better future.

That's how it is. Sometimes criticism is necessary, but sometimes giving too much criticism will only tell the world about how our true qualities are, why not, other people are busy working and evaluating, while the one who give critics just sit down, talk at length about other people's mistakes and criticize endlessly. So I think all of us have the right to choose which party, the party that works or the party who criticizes it.