Stand strong

in #inspiration6 years ago (edited)

I am increasingly aware of the fact that I will have to be more valued in my eyes and start making changes in myself. It's easy to say, and it's a little harder to start realizing goals. For today, I prepared some thoughts for you and accompanied them with the pictures of my own archive.

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All too often times we are doing things for others that we really do not want, we accept opinions that we do not believe in - we allow others to treat us badly, just to have "peace". We are sacrificing our happiness that others should be happy. But in reality no one is happy, no one is calm. There are situations when you need to set yourself up and your needs. With these, I mean the needs like:

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  • When you are passionate about something and you have solid principles

It is difficult to be calm and agree with something that is contrary to your principles. But you do not say anything, because you do not want to cause drama, conflict, or because you think your opinion will not change anything. But if you really believe in something, tell others clearly and calmly, what are your principles for which you stand firm. You owe it to yourself to be honest, although others may not agree with you.

  • When you have a clear goal

Sometimes you have to tell others not to follow your goals. Pay attention to what matters to you and do not trample on your wishes simply because they may be in opposition to others.

  • When harassed or exploited

Do not let someone dominate you just because it is perhaps the loudest or aggressive person. Do not let others ask you to think the same way they are. Protect yourself from absorbing the negative energy of others.

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-When you need to protect your time

Time is one of the most valuable goods that you do not get back when you're wasting it. So spend it carefully and for things that matter to you. If you need to protect your time and say things that do not seem like time, this is perfectly fine.

  • When you need to set boundaries

Some do not respect the boundaries, what is acceptable and what is not. It's important to show people where the border is.

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My final thought for today is - have faith in yourself. Acknowledge the fact that you are a beautiful creature of nature, who deserves the best. Good night all, and a lovely rest of the day.

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Great dear.

Thank you. I'm glad you liked it!

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