3 Reasons Why Jealousy Is Bad For Yourself

in #jealousy6 years ago

Jealousy is mental cancer. It is one of the most dangerous emotions that can even lead to the death of a person because of those negative feelings. It's better to be grateful for what we have instead of keeping our eyeballs to the things that any other person own. We all hate cancer, but why don't we understand that jealousy is just another type of cancer?

Don't get me wrong! We all have experienced this emotion at-least once in our leaves and there's no need to hide that fact. We are humans and we make mistakes. Successful are those who learn from the mistakes and the losers are those who keep repeating those mistakes.

Jealousy
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In order to convince that how harmful jealousy can be for yourself, I'll be explaining the reasons why you should never feel jealous from anyone and why it's good to be grateful for what you have. I'm sure that you're one of the wise people because of the fact that you're reading this article right now.

# 1 - Jealousy - A Career Suicide:

When a person envies from his colleagues at work, he starts to harm them whenever possible and doesn't even care about the friendship while harming them. There can be many reasons for his jealousy such as higher salary or higher status.

The sad reality is that your jealousy can't be hidden. Your actions and words reveal that you are jealous, and the time when your boss discovers that you are planning to harm your colleagues, expect to receive a warning or maybe a termination letter from your boss stating in bold words that "You are fired!". If you don't want to go through such a fate, simply don't be jealous of anyone.

# 2 - Destruction of Family Relations:

Personally, I've seen many broken families because of jealousy. As I mentioned in the first line, jealousy is the worst kind of cancer because when it builds, it harms not only you but also others. Jealousy turns the human into a wild animal who wants to bite and eat a living person alive.

I've observed personally that jealousy is common in joint families. When one family member pays more attention to another, the third family member starts to envy him. Especially when there are two sons of a mother and she pays more attention to one of them, the one with less attention starts feeling jealousy in his heart. In Pakistan, you'll find many such cases where a brother kills another brother just to make himself feel relaxed. That's the result of jealousy!

# 3 - Jealousy -A road to self-destruction!

This is the biggest reason why you should promise yourself to never feel jealous of anyone. Many times when you envy someone, you spend your time on useless stuff and especially in the preparation of plans to harm that person. And when your plan doesn't work out, you start blaming yourself which ultimately affects your psychology and makes you a useless shit on the earth planet!

And it is often seen that jealous people hurt themselves whenever they fail to harm their targeted persons. Sometimes, it leads to a suicide and that's the reason why I call Jealousy a road to self-destruction.

I am sure that these reasons are enough to convince anyone that how harmful it is for your own. Sure, you may become successful in harming others but what's the advantage for you? None! (except the pleasure of satisfying your want).

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Jealousy is what happens when there is no self love. I was a jealous person when I was younger and it led to many failed relationships. Once I spent time alone and fell in love with myself, my true value came to life.

Now in or out of a relationship I feel whole and loved. This has attracted many good experiences and relationships into my life.🙏🏼😌💯

You can be the moon but still be jealous of the STARS...

everyone jealous about others good

wow...great thinking...dear..

Jealousy promotes a lack of self confidence. This is something that cannot be combated by envying others.

We can have role models and strive to achieve similar goals but to be jealous is inhibiting.

Throughout our lives, there will always be times where we are jealous. Whether you’re single and your best friend is happily married or youre struggling financially and your coworkers seem to be doing just fine... it’s how we dwell on these jealousies that manifest them into self destructive properties.

Jelsey is a bad habit because he make a mantal to human due to extra emotion for other humans no without any reason jelsay human also also expire in some time automaticle jelce are very bad virus for a human jelse is present in our houses society countrie

good.& informative post..dear.thanks for sharing with us...

Jealousy will only hurt yourself its always best to congratulate other people on there achievements it will make you feel better

Jealousy that translated into motivation might be good

Life is one major street with heaps of signs. So when you riding through the trenches, don't muddle your brain. Escape from abhor, naughtiness and desire. Try not to cover your contemplations, put your vision to reality. Wake Up and Live!

I have to agree with Jealousy being a road to self destruction... Very informative and straight forward article... I have always tried to be encouraging to everyone and set great examples for others..

never jealous bro

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