Judging, First Impression and Attraction
Judging, First Impression and Attraction
Every day we meet people on the streets, at the office, at parties and in the gym.
You can’t talk and be with everyone at the same time so, we are forced to be selective.
Why are we selective and where does it come from?
Let’s talk about history here.
In the ancient times we lived in villages with unknown territory outside of our walls or other protection mechanisms like a river or a mountain.
When we decided to go out of the known territory and go into the unknown.
When had the deal with chaos because the situations are becoming unpredictable from this point.
Our deepest part of the brain called the amygdala and is regulating fear and our survival instinct.
The counter part of the unknown is that the potential benefits or profits, to make the future better as it would be now is been found in the chaos.
Like animals, fruits, berries, water and new people.
All these discoveries can be two things in the unknown either benefiting or treating the village.
How do we judge whether a person or object is a trait or benefit
Does it look familiar?
Did anybody tell me about it?
How does it look?
What do I recognize from my past mistakes?
What worked for me the last time that I had succes?
These questions are made by neocortex ‘’the thinking part brain’’
What do we do get attracted to the object or person?
After the judging part, people might want to find out more.
When we come closer our 5 senses come into play.
We look at the object or person from a small distance
We smell the object or person
When we come close
We listen to the sounds of the object or we listen to the person by talking
We feel the object or person by shaking their hand
We taste the object or kiss the person if it could be a potential partner to reproduce a baby with.