My recommendation for my son

Free yourself from your spontaneity

It was too late and it took me many years to realize what that meant

It means that when you are spontaneous everywhere and with everyone, you are inevitably the most prone to mistakes and blame, because you simply can not keep up with the deceitful tongues or the hypocritical hearts.The spontaneous person is the one who can not the machinations of people or the harsh conditions of life to stain the purity of his heart and interfaces, spontaneous person is the one that no matter how his old the shadow of his heart as a child.He is quickly affected, rejoice, saddened, angered, all of it quickly and clearly, No matter how he tried to hide the features of his face so as not to reveal what he feels

The spontaneous person is the one who carries the truth more than the rest and carries more love than the others.He is the one who does not hesitate to express his admiration in front of the public or his anger as well.It is the open book that is easy to read and easily staining its pages or shredding its papers with regret.

So do not be spontaneous, never at all except with the few who will value this value in you and do not overstate yourself putting your friend's place in every situation, maybe honest advice from you he not like it, you see it for his benefit but your friend may see it as contrary to your expectations, beware of disappointments. Do not give people more than their destiny, thus you be have diminished your destiny

Be spontaneous yes, but with people inevitably will not exceed their number of tiptoe.