Change is constant
Dear Steemians, note that the only thing constant in life is change. Things that look bad today may look good tomorrow with the proper explanation. Someone's decisions would not be understood except they are given a chance to explain why they took such decisions.
Do not ever react or take decisions when you are angry. Sleep over the thought and think about it properly, you may want to crucify the wrong person when you might actually be at fault.
A wise sayings says "do not judge a book by its cover", try to take your time to know people personally before judging them because other people's analyses of them or their outward appearance may be misleading. If you take your time to know people, you will be surprised that they have more to offer them what their appearance or other peoples judgement say they could.