IF YOU ARE A WOMAN, READ THIS!!!!!
DO NOT LOOSE YOURSELF. KNOW YOURSELF WORTH. LIVE YOUR LIFE. FACE THE CONSEQUENCES.
Women loose themselves in relationships. The society has wired women to suppress their personalities just to get a ring. They tell women how to love, what sort of jobs to do, how to wear makeup,,, in short the society has decided to dictate how women should live their lives. This is part of the reasons that women are always worried about what people say about them.
BUT
Those barriers are being broken as we speak.
Now, do not get me wrong, it is definitely encouraged to look your best and be the best version of yourself but when you find yourself drifting into unhappiness, you need to stop and re evaluate your actions.
The people of the world want to see a trophy! Not a woman with scars, wins and losses. They want picture perfect. But picture perfect is borne out of the insatiable nature man!!!
GOSH, THE PRESSURE IS TOO MUCH!!!
Do what makes you happy, Love as your heart says you should, be kind, be accommodating and stay calm.
Let no one dictate to you how you should live YOUR OWN life.
Do not loose yourself. Discover your purpose and charge towards it with strength and vigor. Not everyone will understand you and that is okay. The love you'll get from being you would be genuine and that is what counts.
ALWAYS STAY POSITIVE!!!!!!
You said it all. Self-appreciation is important if you want to be genuine. However, living under the dictates of others leads to misery. Happiness is a choice. So, choose wisely.
wise words dear
My dear....you said it all...women have been subjected to many thing...to the extend of losing their self-esteem. We should learn to find ourselves irrespective of what people say or think about us....don't die in silent voice out your pains out.
Yes dear. We have to be vocal.
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